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Genesis Chapter
Thirty-three
Genesis 33
Chapter Contents
The friendly meeting of Jacob and Esau. (1-16) Jacob
comes to Succoth and Shalem
He builds an altar. (17-20)
Commentary on Genesis 33:1-16
Jacob
having by prayer committed his case to God
went
on his way. Come what will
nothing can come amiss to him whose heart is fixed
trusting in God. Jacob bowed to Esau. A humble
submissive behaviour goes far
towards turning away wrath. Esau embraced Jacob. God has the hearts of all men
in his hands
and can turn them when and how he pleases. It is not in vain to
trust in God
and to call upon him in the day of trouble. And when a man's ways
please the Lord he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him. Esau
receives Jacob as a brother
and much tenderness passes between them. Esau
asks
Who are those with thee? To this common question
Jacob spoke like
himself
like a man whose eyes are ever directed towards the Lord. Jacob urged
Esau
though his fear was over
and he took his present. It is well when men's
religion makes them generous
free-hearted
and open-handed. But Jacob declined
Esau's offer to accompany him. It is not desirable to be too intimate with
superior ungodly relations
who will expect us to join in their vanities
or at
least to wink at them
though they blame
and perhaps mock at
our religion.
Such will either be a snare to us
or offended with us. We shall venture the
loss of all things
rather than endanger our souls
if we know their value;
rather than renounce Christ
if we truly love him. And let Jacob's care and
tender attention to his family and flocks remind us of the good Shepherd of our
souls
who gathers the lambs with his arm
and carries them in his bosom
and
gently leads those that are with young
Isaiah 40:11. As parents
teachers or pastors
we should all follow his example.
Commentary on Genesis 33:17-20
Jacob did not content himself with words of thanks for
God's favour to him
but gave real thanks. Also he kept up religion
and the
worship of God in his family. Where we have a tent
God must have an altar.
Jacob dedicated this altar to the honour of El-elohe-Israel
God
the God of
Israel; to the honour of God
the only living and true God; and to the honour
of the God of Israel
as a God in covenant with him. Israel's God is Israel's
glory. Blessed be his name
he is still the mighty God
the God of Israel. May
we praise his name
and rejoice in his love
through our pilgrimage here on
earth
and for ever in the heavenly Canaan.
── Matthew Henry《Concise Commentary on Genesis》
Genesis 33
Verse 3
[3] And
he passed over before them
and bowed himself to the ground seven times
until
he came near to his brother.
He bowed —
Though he feared Esau as an enemy
yet he did obeisance to him as an elder
brother.
Verse 4
[4] And Esau ran to meet him
and embraced him
and fell on his neck
and
kissed him: and they wept.
And Esau ran to meet him — Not in passion but in love.
Embraced him
fell on his neck and kissed him — God hath the hearts of all men in his hands
and can turn them when and
how he pleases. He can of a sudden convert enemies into friends
as he did two
Sauls
one by restraining grace
1 Samuel 26:21
25
the other by renewing grace
Acts 9:21.
And they wept —
Jacob wept for joy to be thus kindly received; Esau perhaps wept for grief and
shame to think of the ill design he had conceived against his brother.
Verse 5
[5] And
he lifted up his eyes
and saw the women and the children; and said
Who are
those with thee? And he said
The children which God hath graciously given thy
servant.
Eleven or twelve little ones followed Jacob
the eldest of them not fourteen years old: Who are these? saith Esau. Jacob had
sent him an account of the increase of his estate
but made no mention of his
children
perhaps because he would not expose them to his rage
if he should
meet him as an enemy. Esau therefore had reason to ask who are those with thee?
To which Jacob returns a serious answer; they are the children which God hath
graciously given thy servant. Jacob speaks of his children
1. As God's gifts;
they are a heritage of the Lord. 2. As choice gifts; he hath graciously given
them. Though they were many
and but slenderly provided for
yet he accounts
them great blessings.
Verse 10
[10] And
Jacob said
Nay
I pray thee
if now I have found grace in thy sight
then
receive my present at my hand: for therefore I have seen thy face
as though I
had seen the face of God
and thou wast pleased with me.
I have seen thy face as though I had seen the
face of God — That is
I have seen thee reconciled to
me
and at peace with me
as I desire to see God reconciled.
Verse 12
[12] And he said
Let us take our journey
and let us go
and I will go before
thee.
Esau offers himself to be his guide and
companion
in token of sincere reconciliation. We never find that Jacob and
Esau were so loving with one another as they were now. God made Esau not only
not an enemy
but a friend. Esau is become fond of Jacob's company
courts him to
mount Seir: let us never despair of any
nor distrust God
in whose hands all
hearts are. Yet Jacob saw cause modestly to refute this offer
wherein he shews
a tender concern for his own family and flocks
like a good shepherd and a good
father. He must consider the children
and the flocks with young
and not lead
the one or drive the other too fast. Jacob intimates to him
that it was his
design to come to him to mount Seir; and we may presume he did so
after he had
settled his concerns elsewhere
though that visit be not recorded.
Verse 15
[15] And
Esau said
Let me now leave with thee some of the folk that are with me. And he
said
What needeth it? let me find grace in the sight of my lord.
Esau offers some of his men to be his guard
and convoy; but Jacob humbly refuseth his offer
only desiring he would not
take it amiss that he did not accept it. What needs it? He is under the Divine
protection. Those are sufficiently guarded that have God for their guard
and
are under a convoy of his hosts
as Jacob was. Jacob adds
only let me find
grace in the sight of my lord - Having thy favour I have all I need
all I
desire from thee.
Verse 16
[16] So
Esau returned that day on his way unto Seir.
And Jacob journeyed to Succoth — Having in a friendly manner parted with Esau
who was gone to his own
country
he comes to a place
where he rested
set up booths for his cattle
and other conveniences for himself and family. The place was afterwards known
by the name of Succoth
a city in the tribe of Gad
on the other side Jordan;
it signifies booths: that when his posterity afterwards dwelt in houses of
stone
they might remember that the Syrian ready to perish was their father
who was glad of booths
Deuteronomy 26:5.
Verse 18
[18] And
Jacob came to Shalem
a city of Shechem
which is in the land of Canaan
when
he came from Padanaram; and pitched his tent before the city.
And Jacob came to Shalem
a city of Shechem — Or rather he came safe
or in peace
to the city of Shechem. After a
perilous journey
in which he had met with many difficulties
he came safe at
last
into Canaan.
Verse 20
[20] And
he erected there an altar
and called it Elelohe-Israel.
He erected an altar — 1.
In thankfulness to God for the good hand of his providence over him. 2. That he
might keep up religion
and the worship of God in his family. He dedicated this
altar to the honour of El-elohe-israel
God-the God of Israel: to the honour of
God in general
the only living and true God
the Best of beings
the First of
causes: and to the honour of the God of Israel
as a God in covenant with him.
God had lately called him by the name of Israel; and now he calls God the God
of Israel; though he be called a prince with God
God shall still be a prince
with him
his Lord and his God.
── John Wesley《Explanatory Notes on
Genesis》
33 Chapter 33
Verses 1-16
And Esau ran to meet him
and embraced him
The reconciliation of Jacob and Esau
I.
IT
ILLUSTRATES THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE CHARACTERS OF THE TWO BROTHERS.
1. Esau was generous and forgiving.
2. In Jacob there are traces of his old subtlety.
II. IT ILLUSTRATES
THE POWER OF HUMAN FORGIVENESS.
III. IT ILLUSTRATES
THE TYRANNY OF OLD SINS. All was forgiven
but there was no longer any
confidence. So the effects of past sin remain.
IV. IT ILLUSTRATES
THE POWER OF GODLINESS. Jacob’s humility before his brother was but a sign of
his humility before God. His satisfaction to Esau is a sign also of his
reconciliation with God. (T. H. Leale.)
The brothers reconciled
I. A
RECONCILIATION AFTER A LONG SEPARATION
II. A MOST
DESIRABLE RECONCILIATION.
1. Because of the happiness of their aged parents.
2. On account of their own families.
3. On account of their own spiritual well-being.
III. A
RECONCILIATION WHICH BROUGHT TO SIGHT THE BEST TRAITS OF THEIR CHARACTER.
1. Prayerfulness.
2. Humility.
3. Disinterestedness. (Homilist.)
Forgiveness of injuries
1. The most obvious motive to forgive is the pleasure of forgiving
and the pain of resenting. Therefore
as the apostle says
Repent
for the
kingdom of heaven is at hand
we may say
Forgive
for the kingdom of heaven is
at hand. Forgive while forgiveness is worth having; forgive while there remains
enough of life for the renewal of kindness; forgive while you have something
else to bestow on repentance than lingering looks and faltering words. And what
does this solemn Christian injunction of forgiving do but eradicate from the
mind the most painful and most unquiet of all passions? What wretchedness to
clamour out for ever
“I will pursue
I will overtake; my right hand shall dash
in pieces mine enemy”; to sacrifice all the quiet happiness of life
to sicken
on the bosom of joy
still
after the lapse of years
to feel
to see
and to
suffer with the freshness of yesterday; and in the midst of blessings to
exclaim
All this availeth me nothing while Mordecai
the Jew
sitteth at the
king’s gate.
2. Are we sure
too
that the cause of our resentment is just? Have
we collected the most ample evidence? Have we examined it with the closest
attention? Have we subjected it to impartial revision? Have we suspected our
passions? Have we questioned our self-love?
3. Men are so far
generally
from being ashamed of not forgiving
injuries
that they often glory in revenge; they believe it to be united with
courage and with watchful
dignified pride. Yet
after all
what talents or
what virtue can an unforgiving disposition possibly imply? Who is most likely
longest to retain the sense of injured dignity? He who has given no pledge to
his fellow-creatures that he is good and amiable? who does not feel that he is
invulnerable? who is least fortified by a long tenor of just intentions and
wise actions? What man who had ever trodden one step in the paths of religion
would vex the sunshine of his existence with all the inquietudes of resentment?
would ingraft upon his life the labour of hating
and hovel year after year
over expiring injuries? Who is there that bears about him a heart of flesh that
would put away a brother or a friend who knelt to him for mercy?
4. Other men
who have no desire to be thought magnanimous because
they revenge
are still apprehensive of being considered as timid if they
forgive and resent to maintain a character for spirit; but it is certainly
extremely possible to combine temperate resistance to present injustice with a
tendency to forgive what is past; to be firm in the maintenance of just rights
while we abstain from any greater injury to our enemies than is necessary to
maintain them
and hold ourselves ready for forgiveness when they are
maintained. (Sydney Smith
M. A.)
Needless fears
Now think
brethren
what a revulsion of feeling there would be in
Jacob’s heart. He would think
“Have I been all these years vexing myself for
this!” Here was the thing
so happy and pleasant and kindly when it came
that
had many a time broken his night’s rest at Haran just to think of it; that had
been a dull gnawing at his heart
making him uneasy and restless in cheerful
company; that had been the drop of gall in every cup he tasted--all these
years! And one thing we may be almost sure of: that in all his picturing out of
this dreaded meeting
thinking of it as coming in twenty sad ways
if there was
one thing he never pictured out
it would be just the meeting as it actually
came! The thing you expect is
in this world
the last thing that is likely to
befall you.
1. How needless are our fears! In how many cases we conjure up
things to vex and alarm us! For one-and-twenty years Jacob had kept himself
unhappy through the fear of a meeting which
when it came
proved one of the
happiest things that ever befell him in all his life. Now
have not you many a
time looked forward with great anxiety to something that was coming
and then
when it came
found that all your anxiety had been perfectly needless? We all
have it in our power to make ourselves miserable if we look far into the years
before us and calculate their probabilities of evil
and steadily anticipate
the worst. It is not expedient to calculate too far ahead. Oh that we had all
more faith
Christian friends
in God’s sure promise made to every true
Christian
that as the day
so shall the strength be! We have all known the
anticipated ills of life--the danger that looked so big
the duty that looked
so arduous
the entanglement that we could not see our way through prove to
have been nothing more than spectres on the horizon; and when at length we
reached them
all their difficulty had vanished into air
leaving us to think
how foolish we had been for having so needlessly set up phantoms to disturb our
quiet. I remember well how a good and able man
who died not long ago
told me
many times of his fears as to what he would do in a certain contingency which
both he and I thought was quite sure to come sooner or later. I know that the
anticipation of it cost him some of the most anxious hours of a very anxious
though useful
life. But his fears proved just as vain as Jacob’s in the
prospect of meeting Esau. He was taken from this world before what he dreaded
had cast its most distant shadow. God
in His own way
delivered that man from
the event he had feared. Some people are of an anxious
despondent temperament
ready rather to anticipate evil than to look for good. But all of us
brethren
need more faith in God. How comprehensive a prayer that is
asking so much for
time and for eternity
“Lord
increase our faith!” We bear a far heavier burden
than we need bear. If we had the faith which we ought to have
and which the
Holy Spirit is ready to work in us
we should cast all our care on God
who
careth for us.
2. In those seasons of anxiety and foreboding which
through our
weak faith and our remaining sinfulness
will come to us all
we should
remember what Jacob did
and where Jacob found relief. He turned to God in
prayer. He went and told God all his fear
and asked deliverance from God. And
not once
but many times; through a long night of terrible alarm and apprehension
he wrestled in urgent prayer. And see what he got by it. He got relief of
heart
certainly: of that we are sure. Perhaps he got more. We cannot say how
far those prayers went to turn Esau’s heart
and to make him meet Jacob in that
kindly spirit. When we are overwhelmed
fearful
perplexed
anxious
let us go
to God
and humbly and earnestly tell Him all we are thinking and fearing
and
ask Him to deliver us and comfort us. “Call upon Me in the day of trouble: I
will deliver thee
and thou shalt glorify Me.” If ever there were words
confirmed by the experience of Christian people
you have them here. Perhaps
our prayer may cause the trouble we bear or we dread to go away. Perhaps the
stroke that seemed sure to fall may be withheld; perhaps the hope that seemed
sure to be blighted may be fulfilled after all: perhaps the blessing that
seemed sure to be taken away from us may be spared us yet. Perhaps
through our
prayer
it may be with us as it was with Jacob: when we come up to the time
the trial
the duty
we feared
we may find that there is nothing about it to
be afraid of. But our prayer may be answered in a way that is better and
happier still. It may please God to allow all that we feared to befall us. It
may please Him to disappoint the hope
to frustrate the work
to continue the
long disease
to bring the beloved one down to the grave; but with all that to
resign our heart
to make us humble and content
to sanctify the trial to work
in us a patience
a faith
a humility
a charity
a sympathy
that are worth
a
thousand times over
all worldly happiness and success. Oh what an attainment
it is
which Christians sometimes reach
to feel
if only for a little while
that our whole heart’s wish is that our blessed Saviour’s will be done and His
glory be advanced; and that
as for us
we are content to go where He leads us
and to do and bear what He sends
sure that the way by which He leads us is the
right way
and that it will bring us to our home at last! And prayer will bring
us to this
if anything will. Do not
with the gnawing anxiety at your heart
sit sullenly and try to bear your burden alone. Go with a lowly heart and roll
your burden on the strong arm of God Almighty! Oh how it will lighten your
heart to tell Him
simply
all your fears! You will come back
like Jacob
from
your Saviour’s footstool
calmed and cheered. And even if the stroke should
fall
even if we come out of our trial somewhat stricken and subdued
not quite
the people we were--as Jacob came lamed from that long night of prevailing
prayer--we shall be thankful and content if the stroke be sanctified to us: as
he (we may be sure) would never murmur as he halted on through life. One word
to prevent misapprehension. All this peace and hope is spoken only to Christian
people. “There is no peace
saith my God
to the wicked
” or to any who have no
part in Christ. We can speak no comfort to such in their fears. There is too
good reason for that dull foreboding of evil they bear through life. Their
fears are not needless. (A. K. H. Boyd
D. D.)
The brothers reconciled
I. THE APPROACH
OF THE BROTHERS.
1. Of Esau. At the head of four hundred armed men. Probably at the
first meditating revenge
or to make a great display of his power. But Jacob
was a man of prayer. Had often asked God to guard and keep him. Had the night
before this meeting so mightily prevailed in prayer that his name had been
altered. In answer to the prayers of Jacob
the revengeful feelings of Esau
depart. As he draws nigh
Esau feels his heart drawn out in love towards his
brother.
2. Of Jacob. Full of hope and confidence. Lame
and yet strong. He
is now the prevailer. The sun shining upon him
and
better still
God lifts
upon him the light of His countenance. He had sent forward the present
and now
places himself in advance of all the rest. He--the prevailer--does not fear to
meet the first storm of his brother’s rage.
II. RECONCILIATION
OF THE BROTHERS. Esau
the offended and injured
instead of taking vengeance on
Jacob
having his heart softened by the grace of God
runs towards Jacob. Does
not proudly wait for Jacob to approach
and then upbraid him for his past
conduct. Ran towards him. Then spoke not a single word. Could not. Too full of
joy at once more meeting his long-lost brother. They throw themselves in one
another’s arms. The kiss of reconciliation. Tears of joy
gratitude. Tears too
it may be
of penitence on both sides. Each needed to be forgiven by the other.
Each had done wrong. Jacob
in that he had deprived his brother of the
birthright and the blessing; and Esau
in that he had left his father’s house
and harboured wrong feelings against his brother
and been the cause of his
long exile. Persons offended with each other have often much need of each
other’s forgiveness. The pardon should be on both sides. He who forgives should
also seek forgiveness.
III. THE CONDUCT OF
THE BROTHERS.
1. Of Jacob. He entreats Esau to accept his present. Will take no
denial. Thus shows the sincerity of his affection. Is unwilling that Esau
should at all go out of his way to guard him. Has sufficient trust in God
alone.
2. Of Esau. At length
to please his brother
accepts the present he
makes. It is often as kind to accept as to make a present. He kindly received
the wives and children of Jacob. Goes on the way before Jacob to make the way
clear. Acts as his brother’s guide and vanguard. Shows his forgiveness by deeds
as well as by words. Without practical kindness words are “sounding brass
”
&c.
Learn:
1. In all angry partings
remember that a future meeting will come.
2. God can still the raging of the fiercest storm of passion and
revenge.
3. The reconciliation of brethren
a fit and beautiful sight.
4. We have all sinned against God
and need His forgiveness.
5. By causing Esau to forgive his brother
God shows how ready He is
to forgive us.
6. Our elder Brother
Jesus
has obtained a full pardon for us. (J.
C. Gray.)
The contrast
Reposing
therefore
with confidence on the promised protection of
his God
Jacob crossed the brook at sunrise
and
rejoining his family
went
calmly on his way. A short time appears to have brought on the crisis of his
trial: “Jacob lifted up his eyes
and looked
and behold
Esau came
and with
him four hundred men.” It is not difficult to conceive the rush of contending feelings
that would agitate his breast when the hostile party came in sight; nor to
imagine to what a height the tumult of his thoughts would increase as the two
bands approached each other. Grace does not make us stoics. It controls and
regulates the natural affections by subordinating them to higher principles;
but men of the warmest piety
while they are preserved from an exuberant and
inordinate indulgence of the affections
are generally possessed of the most
tender and benevolent spirit. Excessive natural affection is a common
and in
no respects a sublimated
feeling. But the leading point on which I wish at
this time to fix your attention is the manifest superiority of character
discoverable in Jacob when compared with his elder brother--a superiority
evidently not arising from superior intellect or other natural advantages
but
originating in his religious principles and habits. A fair and unprejudiced
examination of the case before us will show that the godly man
the faithful
servant of God through Jesus Christ
has a superiority of character to other
men
both in principle and in practice.
1. He possesses a superiority of principle. To examine this more
closely--
2. The superiority of the religious man’s conduct as originating in
this principle. A principle so powerful could not be in action without
producing very manifest results. Nor is it; for the man who truly believes the
redemption of the gospel “lives no longer to himself
but unto Him who died for
him.” We do not say that there is no virtue among men without the influence of
revealed religion. All the virtues of the natural character are of a much lower
origin. They are spurious and defective in the motive and principle from which
they spring. They are frequently constitutional. Taken
however
at their
highest point
such manifestations of virtuous principle are fleeting and
uncertain. Let us notice
by way of illustration
the two instances of moral
virtue which arise out of the present event of Jacob’s life--those of content
and liberality.
Let us now endeavour to draw some plain practical instructions
from the whole.
1. In the first place
it will be evident where we must look for the
spring of superior virtue; not in the spontaneous emotions of a man’s own
heart
not in the strong stimulus of occasional circumstances
not in the
influence of human opinion
not in the rewarded efforts of heroic resolution
but in the right appreciation of a dying Saviour’s love. All other principles
will fail in their own time and way.
2. Observe
this contrast of the character of Esau and Jacob will
enable men of excellent moral habits to discriminate between the virtue of
habit and the virtue of principle.
3. This subject speaks with peculiar force to the covetous man. True
Christianity imparts
in a high degree
the graces of content and liberality. A
greedy pursuit of gain is utterly inconsistent with the self-denying spirit of
the gospel. This alone ought to be felt as a cutting rebuke for the love of
money. (E. Craig.)
The reconciliation
I. THE FRIENDLY
MEETING.
II. THE PRUDENT
SEPARATION. Perhaps Jacob was still a little afraid of the impetuosity of his
brother. But the deepest reason why Jacob politely declined Esau’s offer of
help and companionship was
we may well believe
a religious one. He saw that
the aims which Esau would have in view and the habits of Esau’s life would not
suit what he (Jacob) wished to keep in mind and do. Besides
he felt that God
intended him to keep apart from his brother
and to train his family in the
special knowledge of the covenant with Abraham
and of all the promises which
God had given. “Can two walk together
except they be agreed?”
III. THE MEMORIAL
OF GRATITUDE. Implying--
1. Thankfulness. God had enriched
guided
defended
comforted him.
2. Faith. Jacob would trust and worship God.
3. Hope. God
who had blessed him hitherto
would help him now and
in his further career. (W. S. Smith
B. D.)
Needlessness of anxiety
The present was quite unnecessary; the plan useless. God
“appeased” Esau
as He had already appeased Laban. Thus it is He ever delights
to rebuke our poor
coward
unbelieving hearts
and put to flight all our
fears
Instead of the dreaded sword of Esau
Jacob meets his embrace and kiss;
instead of strife and conflict
they mingle their tears. Such are God’s ways.
Who would not trust Him? Who would not honour Him with the heart’s fullest
confidence? Why is it that
notwithstanding all the sweet evidence of His
faithfulness to those who put their trust in Him
we are so ready
on every
fresh occasion
to doubt and hesitate? The answer is simple
we are not
sufficiently acquainted with God. “Acquaint now thyself with Him and be at
peace” (Job 22:21). This is true
whether in reference
to the unconverted sinner or to the child of God. The true knowledge of God
real acquaintance with Him
is life and peace. (C. H. M.)
Lessons
1. God’s promise falls not short in making men yield to His saints.
2. Where God moveth
even wicked men will make speed and run to show
kindness to His servants.
3. The hardest hearts melt in affection when God toucheth them.
4. When men please God
enemies are made friends to them (Proverbs 16:7).
5. Where greatest danger is feared
God turns it to greatest love.
6. It is natural for brethren
good and bad
to melt in tears upon
providential turns and meetings (Genesis 33:4). (G. Hughes
B.
D.)
Lessons
1. Brotherly respect unto brethren will work kind inquisition after
their relations.
2. Love makes queries to know such relations as are to be beloved.
3. Truth
piety
and humility become all the answers to be made unto
queries of love by God’s servants.
4. Children are to be acknowledged the fruit of God’s mercy and
goodness to His (Psalms 127:3).
5. The anger of enraged men is turned into love and tenderness best
by self-denying submission. The reed overcomes the wind by yielding; the oaks
fall by resisting (Genesis 33:5).
6. It becometh family relations to keep order designed by their
head.
7. Orderly approach and submission is the way to gain acceptance
with great men.
8. Providence works by motions of creatures to turn hearts from fury
to love (Genesis 33:6-7). (G. Hughes
B. D.)
The reconciliation of Esau and Jacob
1. Brotherly love is a precious thing; let it be guarded well. Be
just
and true
and kind to one another; and let a spirit of forbearance and
forgiveness prevail.
2. We see here a striking example of prayer. Wrong as Jacob had been
before
he was right in this.
3. Jacob sets us an example also of wisdom and prudence. He prayed;
yet he used all the means in his power.
4. The very word reconciliation cannot but remind us of the great
reconciliation--that between the sinner and God. If God
in answer to prayer
disposed Esau to be reconciled to his brother
surely He Himself will not
refuse pardon
reconciliation
and acceptance to one who has offended Him.
5. God will give His Holy Spirit to those that ask Him; and in this
office
among others
as the spirit of peace. He will help those of one family
to live together in peace
to bear and forbear
to love as brethren. Nay
more:
He can
by the same mighty influence
create a new heart in those who have as
yet been far from Him. (F. Bourdillon.)
Verse 9
I have enough
Contentment from two points of view
I.
HERE
IS AN UNGODLY MAN WHO HAS ENOUGH (Genesis 33:9). Esau. Unconverted men are
sometimes contented with their lot in this life.
1. It is not always or often so: they are mostly a dissatisfied
company.
2. It is sometimes so: as in the case of Esau. This may arise from--
3. It has some good points about it.
4. Yet it has its evil side.
II. HERE IS A
GODLY MAN WHO HAS ENOUGH (Genesis 33:11). Jacob.
1. It is a pity that this is not true of every Christian man.
2. It is delightful to have enough. Contentment surpasses riches.
3. It is pleasant to have somewhat to spare for the poor (Ephesians 4:28).
4. It is blessed to have all this through our God. Jacob said
“God
hath dealt graciously with me
and I have enough.”
5. It is best of all to have all things. In the margin we read that
Jacob said
“I have all things.” “All things are yours” (1 Corinthians 3:22).
Thus he has enough of strength and grace. Enough in Christ
in the
Word
and in the Spirit. Enough in God’s love
power and faithfulness
and an
immeasurable supply in God Himself
whose name is “God All-sufficient.” The
child of God should be ashamed of discontent
since even a common sinner may be
free from it. He should be heartily satisfied; for he has all things
and what
more can he desire? “ O rest in the Lord” (Psalms 37:7). (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Lessons
1. Natural affection will urge to inquire of the outward state of
brethren as well as of relations.
2. Modesty in nature will expostulate about brethren’s offers of
love rather then covetously take them.
3. Providential occurrences of good pretended may occasion natural
men to inquire about them.
4. Humble souls as under providence they do seek favour with men by
presents
so they profess it (Genesis 33:8).
5. It is possible for natural men to have a kind of sufficiency and content
in their possessions.
6. Nature may desire others to keep their own
as it is contented
with its portion.
7. Nature is apt to think earthly possessions enough without God (Genesis 33:9).
8. Ingenuity and grace is not only liberal
but urgent to have
fruits of love accepted.
9. Acceptance of loving presents is a token of acceptance of
persons.
10. It is just cause of importunity in pressing pacifying presents
when God’s face is seen in reconciled adversaries.
11. Unexpected love from displeased ones engageth to press kindness
on them (Genesis 33:10).
12. Presents of gracious souls from God to men are blessings.
13. Grace is importunate with man as well as with God to win Him.
14. God’s gracious respects to saints causeth them so to respect
their brethren.
15. God’s Jacobs
gracious souls
they have not only enough
but all
in the grace of God.
16. The all-sufficiency which God giveth His saints makes them so
pressing kindness to others.
17. Nature is overcome by the importunity of grace to accept an
outward blessing.
18. Brotherly conference is the way of winning upon men of bad
spirits. All this between Jacob and Esau is by loving parley. (G. Hughes
B.
D.)
Christian contentment
A poor Christian woman
who was breaking her fast upon a crust and
a cup of water
exclaimed
“What! all this and Christ too!” (C. H.
Spurgeon.)
A Puritan preacher asking a blessing on a herring and potatoes
said
“Lord
we thank Thee that Thou hast ransacked sea and land to find food
for Thy children.” (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Angelic content
The great cry with everybody is
“Get on! get on!” just as if the
world were travelling post. How astonished these people will be
if they arrive
in heaven
to find the angels
who are much wiser than they
laying no schemes
to be made archangels! (Maxims for Meditation.)
Content from a quiet mind
Is not the bee as well contented with feeding on the dew
or
sucking from a flower
as the ox that grazeth on the mountains? Contentment
lies within a man
in the heart; and the way to be comfortable is not by having
our barrels filled
but our minds quieted. The contented man (saith Seneca)is
the happy man . . . Discontent robs a man of the power to enjoy what he
possesses. A drop or two of vinegar will sour a whole glass of wine. (T.
Watson.)
Contentment of the unregenerate
As a typical instance of the contentment of some unregenerate
persons
note the following: “A captain of a whale-ship told one of the
wretched natives of Greenland that he sincerely pitied the miserable life to
which he was condemned. ‘Miserable!’ exclaimed the savage. ‘I have always had a
fish-bone through my nose
and plenty of train-oil to drink: what more could I
desire?’” (C. H. Spurgeon.)
I have enough
1. The first man who ever said so.
2. What even non-spiritual men may say. Should not Christians say
more?
3. Property should be a heart-store.
4. “Enough” can never be true of spiritual blessings.
5. The evils of avaricious grasping.
6. We must not be avaricious
even on the plea that it is for
others
7. Christianity should be proved by contentment. Examples of
Christ and Paul. (J. Parker
D. D.)
Verse 11
I have enough
Contentment from two points of view
I.
HERE
IS AN UNGODLY MAN WHO HAS ENOUGH (Genesis 33:9). Esau. Unconverted men are
sometimes contented with their lot in this life.
1. It is not always or often so: they are mostly a dissatisfied
company.
2. It is sometimes so: as in the case of Esau. This may arise from--
3. It has some good points about it.
4. Yet it has its evil side.
II. HERE IS A
GODLY MAN WHO HAS ENOUGH (Genesis 33:11). Jacob.
1. It is a pity that this is not true of every Christian man.
2. It is delightful to have enough. Contentment surpasses riches.
3. It is pleasant to have somewhat to spare for the poor (Ephesians 4:28).
4. It is blessed to have all this through our God. Jacob said
“God
hath dealt graciously with me
and I have enough.”
5. It is best of all to have all things. In the margin we read that
Jacob said
“I have all things.” “All things are yours” (1 Corinthians 3:22).
Thus he has enough of strength and grace. Enough in Christ
in the
Word
and in the Spirit. Enough in God’s love
power and faithfulness
and an
immeasurable supply in God Himself
whose name is “God All-sufficient.” The
child of God should be ashamed of discontent
since even a common sinner may be
free from it. He should be heartily satisfied; for he has all things
and what
more can he desire? “ O rest in the Lord” (Psalms 37:7). (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Lessons
1. Natural affection will urge to inquire of the outward state of
brethren as well as of relations.
2. Modesty in nature will expostulate about brethren’s offers of
love rather then covetously take them.
3. Providential occurrences of good pretended may occasion natural
men to inquire about them.
4. Humble souls as under providence they do seek favour with men by
presents
so they profess it (Genesis 33:8).
5. It is possible for natural men to have a kind of sufficiency and
content in their possessions.
6. Nature may desire others to keep their own
as it is contented
with its portion.
7. Nature is apt to think earthly possessions enough without God (Genesis 33:9).
8. Ingenuity and grace is not only liberal
but urgent to have
fruits of love accepted.
9. Acceptance of loving presents is a token of acceptance of
persons.
10. It is just cause of importunity in pressing pacifying presents
when God’s face is seen in reconciled adversaries.
11. Unexpected love from displeased ones engageth to press kindness
on them (Genesis 33:10).
12. Presents of gracious souls from God to men are blessings.
13. Grace is importunate with man as well as with God to win Him.
14. God’s gracious respects to saints causeth them so to respect
their brethren.
15. God’s Jacobs
gracious souls
they have not only enough
but all
in the grace of God.
16. The all-sufficiency which God giveth His saints makes them so
pressing kindness to others.
17. Nature is overcome by the importunity of grace to accept an
outward blessing.
18. Brotherly conference is the way of winning upon men of bad
spirits. All this between Jacob and Esau is by loving parley. (G. Hughes
B.
D.)
Christian contentment
A poor Christian woman
who was breaking her fast upon a crust and
a cup of water
exclaimed
“What! all this and Christ too!” (C. H.
Spurgeon.)
A Puritan preacher asking a blessing on a herring and potatoes
said
“Lord
we thank Thee that Thou hast ransacked sea and land to find food
for Thy children.” (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Angelic content
The great cry with everybody is
“Get on! get on!” just as if the
world were travelling post. How astonished these people will be
if they arrive
in heaven
to find the angels
who are much wiser than they
laying no schemes
to be made archangels! (Maxims for Meditation.)
Content from a quiet mind
Is not the bee as well contented with feeding on the dew
or
sucking from a flower
as the ox that grazeth on the mountains? Contentment
lies within a man
in the heart; and the way to be comfortable is not by having
our barrels filled
but our minds quieted. The contented man (saith Seneca)is
the happy man . . . Discontent robs a man of the power to enjoy what he
possesses. A drop or two of vinegar will sour a whole glass of wine. (T.
Watson.)
Contentment of the unregenerate
As a typical instance of the contentment of some unregenerate
persons
note the following: “A captain of a whale-ship told one of the
wretched natives of Greenland that he sincerely pitied the miserable life to
which he was condemned. ‘Miserable!’ exclaimed the savage. ‘I have always had a
fish-bone through my nose
and plenty of train-oil to drink: what more could I
desire?’” (C. H. Spurgeon.)
I have enough
1. The first man who ever said so.
2. What even non-spiritual men may say. Should not Christians say
more?
3. Property should be a heart-store.
4. “Enough” can never be true of spiritual blessings.
5. The evils of avaricious grasping.
6. We must not be avaricious
even on the plea that it is for
others
7. Christianity should be proved by contentment. Examples of
Christ and Paul. (J. Parker
D. D.)
Verse 13
The children are tender
Gently! gently!
I.
LET
US VIEW JACOB AS AN EXAMPLE TO US. Tender consideration for the young and
feeble.
1. How we may overdrive.
2. Why we should not overdrive the lambs.
(10) We remember how tender Jesus is: and this brings us to our second point.
II. LET US VIEW
JACOB AS A PICTURE OF OUR LORD JESUS. See His portrait Isaiah 40:11.
1. The weak have a special place in His love.
2. He will not have it that any of them should die.
3. Therefore He never overdrives one of them.
4. But He suits His pace to their feebleness
“I will lead on
softly” Genesis 33:15).
“I have many things to say unto you
but ye cannot bear them now.”
Has He not thus been very tender to us? “ Thy gentleness hath made me great” Psalms 18:35). Let us not fret and worry
as though He were an exactor. We are not driven by Jehu
but led by Jesus. Let
us rest in His love. At the same time let us not be slower than need be.
Towards others let us be tenderness itself
for we are to love our neighbour as
ourselves. (C. H.Spurgeon.)
Jacob’s precaution
The angels of peace and of love seem to hover over the charm of
the preceding scene; and the heart lingers with delight in contemplating the
noble emulation of generosity and confidence. But is not this harmony too soon
disturbed? Does not again a spirit of suspicion and reserve overshadow the mind
of Jacob? Is he incapable of rising to the natural purity of his disinterested
brother? Or does his keen intellect teach him how imprudent it would be
unguardedly to rely upon the fallacious calmness of a passionate mind? Admitted
even
that Jacob’s apprehensions were
in this respect
exaggerated
his
precaution was the result of a deep insight into Esau’s character; the most
insignificant circumstance might recall to his memory the events of the past;
his rage might be re-kindled; and
though perhaps later bewailing his rashness
he might
by his superiority
be misled to deeds of cruel revenge. When
therefore
Esau wished to accompany Jacob
for protection
through the regions
with which his excursions had made him familiar
the latter cautiously declined
the offer; he refused even the garrison or guard which Esau proposed to leave
him; but he promised
of his own accord
to visit him in his home in Seir; for
he knew
that the sacred rights of hospitality would there protect him
even
against an outbreak of passion. But though the objections of Jacob may have
been as many evasions
they were not untruths; he could certainly not
without
great danger
follow with his encumbered caravan
the march of Esau; and the
latter seemed to acknowledge the justness of the remark; but he opposed the
second offer with the simple question: “Wherefore do I thus find grace in the
sight of my lord?” He invented no fictitious pretext; he thus almost exposed
himself to the danger of arousing his brother’s suspicion; but he had banished
deceit from his heart; and he preferred risk to falsehood. (M. M. Kalisch
Ph. D.)
Sympathy for the feeble
The Lord chooses under-shepherds for His flock among men subject
to weakness and infirmity
that they may have a fellow-feeling for the feeble.
Selah Merrill
in his “East of the Jordan
” describes the movement of an Arab
tribe
and says
” The flocks of sheep and goats were mostly driven by small
children. Sometimes there were flocks of lambs and kids driven by children not
much older relatively than the lambs and kids themselves. Some of the men had
in their arms two
three
four
or a whole armful of kids and lambs that were
too young to walk; and among some cooking utensils there was a large saucepan
and in it was a pair of small kids that were too young for the journey.” (C.
H.Spurgeon.)
Gentle dealing for the feeble
When a candle is newly lighted and needs to be moved
it must be
carried at a slow pace or it will be extinguished. A fire which is almost expiring
may be revived by a gentle breath
but it will be blown out if the bellows are
plied at their full force. You can drown a little plant by watering it too
much
and destroy a lovely flower by exposing it to too much sun. (C. H.
Spurgeon.)
Gentleness and strength go together
Nothing is so strong as gentleness; nothing so gentle as real
strength. (Francis de Sales.)
Tenderness of manner
Even in our manner there should be tenderness. A truly kind act
may be so performed as to cause as much grief as joy. We have heard of one who
would throw a penny at a beggar and thus hurt him while relieving him. A heart
full of love has a mode of its own by which its gifts are enhanced in value.
There is enough misery in the world without our carelessly adding to it. Some persons
are morbidly sensitive
and this is wrong on their part; but when we are aware
of their failing we must be the more careful lest we cause them needless pain.
A gouty man will cry out if we walk with heavy footstep across the room. Do we
censure him for this? No
we pity him
and tread softly. Let us do the same for
the sensitive. (C. H.Spurgeon.)
The weakest first
At the Stockwell Orphanage the usual rule of walking is--little
boys first. In this way the younger children cannot be overdriven or left
behind
and moreover all the boys can see before them
whereas by the usual
practice of putting the tall fellows first the view in front is shut out from
all but the few who lead the way. Let the Church have great care for the weaker
brethren
and shape her action with a constant reference to them. A strong
Christian might do a thousand things lawfully if he only thought of himself
but he will not do one of them because he wishes to act expediently
and would
not grieve his brother
or cause him to stumble.
Verse 17
Jacob journeyed to Succoth
Lessons
1.
Providence
in love carrieth on his own after removing of blocks from their way.
2. The movings and journeyings of his own
providence guides
as of
the wicked
but with distinction.
3. Esau under providence may be carried to Seir
strong mountains
but Jacob to Succoth
a poor cottage and a booth..
4. Under providence it concerns good householders to build shelters
for themselves
families
and cattle.
5. Such common works of saints are recorded as pleasing unto God.
6. Jacob’s seed are careful to keep booth-providences in
remembrance
Name of place showeth this. (G. Hughes
B. D.)
Verse 18
And Jacob came to Shalem
a city of Shechem
. . . and pitched his
tent before the city
Jacob’s mistake
God had not said
Go to Shechem; but
“I am the God of Bethel.
” Bethel
rather than Shechem
was his appointed goal. But alas! we are all too
ready to fall short of God’s schemes for our elevation and blessedness. And so
Jacob came to Shalem
a city of Shechem. But he did worse; he pitched his tent
before the city--as Lot did
when he pitched his tent before Sodom. What took
him there? Was it that Rachel persuaded him that a little society would be a
pleasant relief to the monotony and seclusion of the camp life? Was it that his
children urged him to it against his better mind? Was it some idea of obtaining
eligible alliances for his children among the children of the land? Whatever
may have been his reason
there stands the sad and solemn fact that Jacob
pitched his tent before the city. Are not many Christians doing so still? They
live on the edge of the world
just on the borderland; far enough away to
justify a religious profession
yet near enough to run into it for sweets. They
send their children to fashionable schools
that they may acquire the false
veneer of the world
and past muster in its drawing rooms. They remove into the
fashionable quarters of a town; and adopt a certain style; and throw themselves
into the swim of all manner of worldly engagements--that they may get in with
“society.” They choose their church
their pastimes
their friendships
on the
sole principle of doing as others do; and of forming good alliances for their
children. What is all this but pitching their tents towards Shechem? “But what
are we to do?” say they; “our children must have society; they cannot be recluses
or be for ever shut up in our homes.” But why need we cater for them by rushing
into the world? Are there not plenty of innocent pastimes
on which worldliness
has never breathed its withering breath? Are there not enough elements in the
bright social intercourse of the family circle; in the play of imagination and
wholesome merriment; in games of skill; in the charms of books; in the recital
of travel and adventure; in the witchery of wholesome songs and music; and even
in the revelations of modern popular science--to beguile the hours of long
winter evenings
without calling in the aid of worldly society
whose brightest
hours leave a sense of vacuity and thirst
to say nothing of a positive sting?
The most earnest religion does not debar us from manly sports: the swift
movement of the skater over the frozen lake; the evening row; the exhilarating
climb: or from the culture of the faculties of art; and music; and imagination;
of science and poesy. Surely
in all these there is enough to brighten Christian
homes
without grieving the Holy Spirit
or lowering their tone. But if parents
and guardians will insist on something more exciting and stimulating than
these
they must reckon on being called upon to pay the price. They may have
the dice-box
the theatre
the dance
if they will; but they must learn
by sad
experience
the bitter cost. He needs a long spoon who sups with the devil. The
fact is
it is much easier to give these things than to arouse oneself to
provide something better. The something better needs time and thought; and
staying at home from religious meetings
to give it effect: but the ultimate
benefit will more than repay the self-denial. (F. B. Meyer
B. A.)
Shechem
I. RELIGIOUS
REVIVAL.
II. FAMILY TRIALS.
(T. S. Dickson.)
Verse 19-20
And he bought a parcel of a field
Jacob’s faith and piety
I.
HIS
FAITH. He bought a parcel of ground as a pledge of his faith in the future
possession of that country by his posterity (Genesis 33:19). This purchase of a
portion of land
concerning which God had promised Abraham that it should be
his
showed Jacob’s deep conviction that the promise was renewed to him and to
his seed.
II. HIS PIETY.
This was an evidence of his faith. He gave himself up entirely to God
and this
inward feeling was expressed outwardly by acts of obedience and devotion. His
piety is seen--
1. In an act of worship. “He erected there an altar.” This was in
keeping with his vow (Genesis 28:21).
2. In the use of blessings already given. He called the altar
“El-Elohe-Israel” (Genesis 33:20). He now uses his own new
name
Israel
for the first time
in association with the name of God. He uses
that name which signifies the Mighty One
who was now his covenant God. He
lives up to his privilege
uses all that God had given. He had vowed that he
would take the Lord to be his God.
3. In the peace he enjoyed. He arrived in peace at his journey’s end
(Genesis 33:18). (T. H. Leale.)
Lessons
1. Jacob and his seed desire to usurp nothing but what they buy from
the world.
2. God’s pilgrims mind no great purchase below
but only a place for
a tent: a little place.
3. It is lawful for Jacob to deal with Canaanites in just exchanges
(Genesis 33:19).
4. Saints would not have a house but that God should dwell in 2:5.
Succeeding saints repair religion and the means of the exercise of it
set up by
progenitors.
6. Altarworship
or worship by Christ
is that which saints have
ever practised.
7. True religion is terminated in the Almighty God.
8. Religious worship is the true memorial of God’s making His Church
truly Israel (Genesis 2:20). (G. Hughes
B. D.)
He erected there an altar
The family altar
By calling this altar “El-Elohe-Israel
” or God the God of Israel
it was virtually saying
“I erect this altar for the worship of my family
to
the God with whom I have prevailed in supplication
and who has proved Himself
the hearer of my prayer.” Such an altar should there be in every household;
and
without further special reference to our text
I proceed to the subject I
have chosen for this occasion
namely
that of family worship.
1. We may remark
first
that it is clearly the duty of every family
to maintain such worship.
2. We may pass on
therefore
in the second place
to the advantages
of family worship. Among its lesser benefits
we may remark in passing that
rightly conducted
it makes a profitable impression upon those out of the
family
who may chance to witness it. Family worship is also of unspeakable
advantage in maintaining all the other institutions of our holy religion. We
can hardly enumerate the advantages of family worship to the household itself.
That it draws down the blessing of God upon the domestic circle needs no proof
for we have for our encouragement
not only the general promises made to prayer
but the special assurance that “where two or three are gathered together in
Christ’s name He will be with them”; and we have farther
the evidence of
actual experience. If we value the salvation of our loved ones we shall not
neglect this means of securing it. The restraining influence of domestic
worship upon all the annoyances and disturbers of domestic peace is most
powerful and valuable. Who can kneel down and pray daily before his family
against a sin which he habitually commits? How can the inmates of a dwelling
cherish unkind feelings towards each other while united in common prayer?
3. We may next notice the manner in which family devotions may best
be performed.
4. Our last point will be to notice the objections and difficulties
which are commonly opposed to the duty. One may reply
that all these arguments
and statements may be very good and true
but that he makes no profession of
religion
and it would be improper
therefore
for him to set up family
worship. Why so? Is it wrong for him to pray in secret
or in the house of God
or to give his children religious instruction? And why any more so to pray in
the family? (W. H. Lewis
D. D.)
Jacob’s thankfulness after deliverance
See the practice of faithful men
ever when God hath been merciful
to them
and delivered them out of danger. Now Jacob buildeth an altar in the
true thankfulness of his soul unto God for this great mercy and deliverance of
him from his brother Esau. And he calleth it the mighty God of Israel: giving
to the sign the name of the thing which it signified
which is usual in the
Scripture. Thus would God it might kindle some heat in our hearts and
consciences
to consider ourselves
the dangers we have been in our days
the
dangers of the land wherein we inhabit. The dangers of wife
children
and
friends
and now our safety and deliverance from all our fears. For this hath
the Lord done for us
and whatsoever it is in our eyes
surely it is wonderful
even through the world. But where now are our altars? That is
where are our thanks
and most grateful songs for our deliverance? We have found mercy as Jacob did;
yea
for more
for greater Esaus have come against us
than did against him
not with four hundred men
but many thousands
to captivate us for ever as
their slaves when they had slain their fill. And yet we live
and by God only
who hath strangely revenged us upon them that would thus have eaten us up. That
is
as I say again
we give not thanks for the custom of our time
as he did
after the manner of his. At the first peradventure we did
but it was soon at
an end. Now are we fallen into a deep sleep again
and both God and His mercy
is forgotten. Our danger also
as if it had never been. But in the Lord I
beseech you
let us awake again
look upon Jacob here what he cloth
and every
man and woman follow his example. Build God an altar
not in earth with lime and
stone
but in your heart of most kind and thankful remembrance for all His
mercies to the land
to our dread sovereign
to ourselves
our souls and
bodies
to our wives and children
to our neighbours and friends
and infinite
ways that we cannot name. Bless His majesty for them
and let not the
remembrance die
till you die yourself. A thankful heart is all that the Lord
seeketh
and it is all that indeed we can do to Him. (Bp. Babington.)
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