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1 Samuel Chapter Twenty                            

 

1 Samuel 20

Chapter Contents

David consults Jonathan. (1-10) Jonathan's covenant with David. (11-23) Saul missing David seeks to kill Jonathan. (24-34) Jonathan takes leave of David. (35-42)

Commentary on 1 Samuel 20:1-10

(Read 1 Samuel 20:1-10)

The trials David met with prepared him for future advancement. Thus the Lord deals with those whom he prepares unto glory. He does not put them into immediate possession of the kingdom but leads them to it through much tribulation which he makes the means of fitting them for it. Let them not murmur at his gracious appointment nor distrust his care; but let them look forward with joyful expectation to the crown which is laid up for them. Sometimes it appears to us that there is but a step between us and death; at all times it may be so and we should prepare for the event. But though dangers appear most threatening we cannot die till the purpose of God concerning us is accomplished; nor till we have served our generation according to his will if we are believers. Jonathan generously offers David his services. This is true friendship. Thus Christ testifies his love to us Ask and it shall be done for you; and we must testify our love to him by keeping his commandments.

Commentary on 1 Samuel 20:11-23

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Jonathan faithfully promises that he would let David know how he found his father affected towards him. It will be kindness to ourselves and to ours to secure an interest in those whom God favours and to make his friends ours. True friendship rests on a firm basis and is able to silence ambition self-love and undue regard for others. But who can fully understand the love of Jesus who gave himself as a sacrifice for rebellious polluted sinners! how great then ought to be the force and effects of our love to him to his cause and his people!

Commentary on 1 Samuel 20:24-34

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None were more constant than David in attending holy duties; nor had he been absent but self-preservation obliged him to withdraw. In great peril present opportunities for Divine ordinances may be waved. But it is bad for us except in case of necessity to omit any opportunity of statedly attending on them. Jonathan did wisely and well for himself and family to secure an interest in David yet for this he is blamed. It is good to take God's people for our people. It will prove to our advantage at last however it may now be thought against our interest. Saul was outrageous. What savage beasts and worse does anger make men!

Commentary on 1 Samuel 20:35-42

(Read 1 Samuel 20:35-42)

The separation of two such faithful friends was grievous to both but David's case was the more deplorable for David was leaving all his comforts even those of God's sanctuary. Christians need not sorrow as men without hope; but being one with Christ they are one with each other and will meet in his presence ere long to part no more; to meet where all tears shall be wiped from their eyes.

── Matthew HenryConcise Commentary on 1 Samuel

 

1 Samuel 20

Verse 2

[2] And he said unto him God forbid; thou shalt not die: behold my father will do nothing either great or small but that he will shew it me: and why should my father hide this thing from me? it is not so.

Is it not so — For Jonathan gave credit to his father's oath chap. 19:6.

Verse 3

[3] And David sware moreover and said Thy father certainly knoweth that I have found grace in thine eyes; and he saith Let not Jonathan know this lest he be grieved: but truly as the LORD liveth and as thy soul liveth there is but a step between me and death.

David sware — The matter being of great moment and Jonathan doubting the truth of it he confirms his word with an oath which follows in the end of the verse. Only he interposeth a reason why Saul concealed it from Jonathan.

Verse 5

[5] And David said unto Jonathan Behold to morrow is the new moon and I should not fail to sit with the king at meat: but let me go that I may hide myself in the field unto the third day at even.

To the third day — That is unto the next day but one after the new moon. His meaning is not that he would hide himself in any certain place all the three days but that he would secure himself either at Bethlehem with his friends or in any other place 'till the third day.

Verse 6

[6] If thy father at all miss me then say David earnestly asked leave of me that he might run to Bethlehem his city: for there is a yearly sacrifice there for all the family.

Asked me — Who being the king's son and deputy used to give license to military men to depart for a season upon just occasions.

Verse 8

[8] Therefore thou shalt deal kindly with thy servant; for thou hast brought thy servant into a covenant of the LORD with thee: notwithstanding if there be in me iniquity slay me thyself; for why shouldest thou bring me to thy father?

Deal kindly — In giving me timely notice and a true account of Saul's disposition and intention towards me.

A covenant of the Lord — That is a solemn covenant not lightly undertaken but seriously entered into in the name and fear of God and in his presence calling him to be the witness of our sincerity therein and the avenger of perfidiousness in him that breaks it.

Slay me — I am contented thou shouldst kill me.

For why — Why shouldst thou betray me to thy father by concealing his evil intentions from me?

Verse 12

[12] And Jonathan said unto David O LORD God of Israel when I have sounded my father about to morrow any time or the third day and behold if there be good toward David and I then send not unto thee and shew it thee;

O Lord God — Do thou hear and judge between us. It is an abrupt speech which is usual in great passions.

Verse 14

[14] And thou shalt not only while yet I live shew me the kindness of the LORD that I die not:

Kindness as the Lord — That kindness to which thou hast engaged thyself in the covenant sworn between thee and me in God's presence.

I die not — That thou do not kill me or mine as princes of another line use to kill the nearest relations of the former line from whom the kingdom was translated to them.

Verse 16

[16] So Jonathan made a covenant with the house of David saying Let the LORD even require it at the hand of David's enemies.

A covenant — The covenant which before was personal he now extends to the whole house of David expecting a reciprocal enlargement of it on David's side which doubtless he obtained.

Enemies — If either I or any of my house shall break this covenant and shall prove enemies to David or to his house let the Lord the witness of this covenant severely punish the violators of it.

Verse 17

[17] And Jonathan caused David to swear again because he loved him: for he loved him as he loved his own soul.

Swear again — Heb. and Jonathan added or proceeded to make David swear; that is having himself sworn to David or adjured David in the foregoing verse he here requires David's oath to him by way of restipulation or confirmation.

Loved him — Because he had a true friendship for David he desired that the covenant might be inviolably observed through all their generations.

Verse 19

[19] And when thou hast stayed three days then thou shalt go down quickly and come to the place where thou didst hide thyself when the business was in hand and shalt remain by the stone Ezel.

Was in hand — When this same business which now they were treating about was in agitation formerly; namely to discover Saul's mind and purpose towards him chap. 19:2 3.

Ezel — By that stone which directs travellers in the way; namely in some cave or convenient place which was near it.

Verse 21

[21] And behold I will send a lad saying Go find out the arrows. If I expressly say unto the lad Behold the arrows are on this side of thee take them; then come thou: for there is peace to thee and no hurt; as the LORD liveth.

I will send — I will send him out before I shoot to find out and take up the arrows which I shall shoot. And I shall shoot them either short of him or beyond him as I shall see occasion.

Verse 23

[23] And as touching the matter which thou and I have spoken of behold the LORD be between thee and me for ever.

Between — As a witness and a judge between us and our families for ever if on either side this league of friendship be violated.

Verse 24

[24] So David hid himself in the field: and when the new moon was come the king sat him down to eat meat.

Hid himself — Namely at the time appointed: for it seems probable that he went first to Bethlehem and thence returned to the field when the occasion required.

Verse 25

[25] And the king sat upon his seat as at other times even upon a seat by the wall: and Jonathan arose and Abner sat by Saul's side and David's place was empty.

Arose — He rose from his seat where he was sat next the king and stood at Abner's coming to do honour to him who was his father's cousin and the general of the army.

Verse 26

[26] Nevertheless Saul spake not any thing that day: for he thought Something hath befallen him he is not clean; surely he is not clean.

Something — Some accident which has rendered him unclean and so unfit to partake of this feast which consisted in part of the remainders of the peace-offerings according to the law Leviticus 7:20. Unfit also to come into any company much more into the king's company lest he should pollute them also.

Verse 27

[27] And it came to pass on the morrow which was the second day of the month that David's place was empty: and Saul said unto Jonathan his son Wherefore cometh not the son of Jesse to meat neither yesterday nor to day?

Son of Jesse — So he calls him in scorn to note the meanness of his original; and as not deigning to call him by his proper name.

To day — For the uncleanness which came by some chance usually lasted but for one day.

Verse 30

[30] Then Saul's anger was kindled against Jonathan and he said unto him Thou son of the perverse rebellious woman do not I know that thou hast chosen the son of Jesse to thine own confusion and unto the confusion of thy mother's nakedness?

Thy confusion — Men will conclude that thou hast no royal blood in thy veins that canst so tamely give up thy crown to so contemptible a person.

Verse 33

[33] And Saul cast a javelin at him to smite him: whereby Jonathan knew that it was determined of his father to slay David.

To smite him — Saul seemed to be in great care that Jonathan should be established in his kingdom: and now he himself aims at his life! What fools what worse than savage beasts does anger make.

Verse 37

[37] And when the lad was come to the place of the arrow which Jonathan had shot Jonathan cried after the lad and said Is not the arrow beyond thee?

To — That is near the place. For the words following shew that he was not yet come thither.

Verse 40

[40] And Jonathan gave his artillery unto his lad and said unto him Go carry them to the city.

Artillery — His bow and arrows and quiver.

── John WesleyExplanatory Notes on 1 Samuel

 

20 Chapter 20

 

Verses 1-42

1 Samuel 20:1-42

And David fled from Naioth in Ramah and came and said before Jonathan.

David and Jonathan

1. It will be suitable for us to dwell on the remarkable friendship between David and Jonathan--a beautiful oasis in this wilderness history.

2. We cannot turn from this chapter without adding a word on the friendships of the young. It is when hearts are tender that they are more readily knit to each other as the heart of Jonathan was knit to the heart of David. But the formation of friendships is too important a matter to be safely left to casual circumstances.

A friendly prince a princely friend

I. The princely friendship.

1. An unselfish and self-denying avowal. He had soon to learn by experience and he must have known the fact then that to befriend David was to displease Saul. Yet is there no faltering in his fidelity. However contrary the waves may be he changes not the vessel’s head; undeterred he abides faithful. Calumnies and adulations change him not.

2. The religious character of this friendship is forced upon us. He begins with a covenant. Are any friendships worth cultivating whereupon we may not ask the Divine blessing?

3. Such a friendship was not only the affection of a man. He drew the power to thus “love on” from the Great Source of Love.

II. The purpose this friendship served.

1. God gave David a friend at court.

2. Another purpose the friendship of Jonathan served was to strengthen David’s faith. During his exile especially in the early past when his fortunes changed so suddenly David’s faith became clouded. It is his voice that exclaims “There is but a step between me and death.” The strong confidence is breathed by Jonathan (1 Samuel 20:14-15). When pressed almost beyond endurance and weary with continual flight it is Jonathan who directs the trembling heart to God (1 Samuel 23:16-17).

Lessons:

1. Sanctified friendships are God’s hands of guidance. Such lead us always to Himself and never from Him.

2. Friendships formed for social or temporal gain are akin to traffic and bargain driving on the Temple floor and must end in ruin. That is no real friendship which fails to lead us to God.

3. True friendships are stable. Human alliances are as fragile as the flowers the frost has traced upon the window which melt away before the pure beams of love or the heat of trial from within. All friendships that are worth anything must begin with a covenant. (H. E. Stone.)


Verses 1-42

1 Samuel 20:1-42

And David fled from Naioth in Ramah and came and said before Jonathan.

David and Jonathan

1. It will be suitable for us to dwell on the remarkable friendship between David and Jonathan--a beautiful oasis in this wilderness history.

2. We cannot turn from this chapter without adding a word on the friendships of the young. It is when hearts are tender that they are more readily knit to each other as the heart of Jonathan was knit to the heart of David. But the formation of friendships is too important a matter to be safely left to casual circumstances.

A friendly prince a princely friend

I. The princely friendship.

1. An unselfish and self-denying avowal. He had soon to learn by experience and he must have known the fact then that to befriend David was to displease Saul. Yet is there no faltering in his fidelity. However contrary the waves may be he changes not the vessel’s head; undeterred he abides faithful. Calumnies and adulations change him not.

2. The religious character of this friendship is forced upon us. He begins with a covenant. Are any friendships worth cultivating whereupon we may not ask the Divine blessing?

3. Such a friendship was not only the affection of a man. He drew the power to thus “love on” from the Great Source of Love.

II. The purpose this friendship served.

1. God gave David a friend at court.

2. Another purpose the friendship of Jonathan served was to strengthen David’s faith. During his exile especially in the early past when his fortunes changed so suddenly David’s faith became clouded. It is his voice that exclaims “There is but a step between me and death.” The strong confidence is breathed by Jonathan (1 Samuel 20:14-15). When pressed almost beyond endurance and weary with continual flight it is Jonathan who directs the trembling heart to God (1 Samuel 23:16-17).

Lessons:

1. Sanctified friendships are God’s hands of guidance. Such lead us always to Himself and never from Him.

2. Friendships formed for social or temporal gain are akin to traffic and bargain driving on the Temple floor and must end in ruin. That is no real friendship which fails to lead us to God.

3. True friendships are stable. Human alliances are as fragile as the flowers the frost has traced upon the window which melt away before the pure beams of love or the heat of trial from within. All friendships that are worth anything must begin with a covenant. (H. E. Stone.)


Verse 3

1 Samuel 20:3

There is but a step between me and death.

Solemn News

Notice the views and feelings that will naturally possess a man who believes “there is but a step between him and death ” or that his end is near.

I. The world with its pleasures pursuits and prospects will appear small. The mask is taken off now.

II. He will feel that his own personal salvation is to him above all things else in point of importance.

III. Next to his own salvation in point of importance will be that of his family.

IV. He will not feel at home in the company of the wicked or in any pursuit or pleasure upon which he could not ask the blessing of God.

V. He will desire to settle all disputes and old grudges and forgive his enemies.

VI. A man who believes “there is but a step between him and death” will desire to make his will. (T. Kelly.)

But a step

This was David’s description of his own condition. King Saul was seeking to destroy him. The bitter malice of that king would not be satisfied with anything short of the blood of his rival.

1. There is a sense in which this text is no doubt literally true of every man--There is but a step between me and death; for life is so short that it is no exaggeration to compare it to a step.

2. But in another sense there is but a step between us and death namely that life is so uncertain. How unexpectedly it ends.

3. And this is all the more true when we consider that there are so many gates to the grave. We can die anywhere at any time by any means. Not alone abroad are we in danger but at home in security we are still in peril. Wherever you are you may well feel “There is but a step between me and death.”

II. That to some this is specially true. To persons who have reached a ripe old age this is most certainly true: “There is but a step between me and death”? Now do not object to think about it and talk about it. If you are all right with God it can be no trouble to you to remember that as your years multiply there must be so many the fewer in which you are to abide here below.

III. Suppose it is not so. There may be some here that will live to a very great age. Well what then? If so I should recommend you to follow the Scriptural advice “Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.” Suppose that it is not true that there is but a step between you and death; nevertheless while death is at a distance health and strength furnish the best time for coming to Christ.

IV. But now suppose that it is so. Suppose that it is so and suppose as yet that you have no good hope. If there is but a step between you and death yet there is only a step between you and Jesus. There is only a step between you and salvation. God help you to take that step. Suppose that it is so that you are moon to die; then set your house in order. (C. H. Spurgeon.)

The mystic stop

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I. It is a certain step. All must take it.

II. It is an uncertain step.

1. When we must take it we cannot tell.

2. Where we must take it is altogether hid from us.

III. It is a final step. It is final because it puts an end to human distinctions.

IV. It is a parting step.

1. It parts us from this world of matter. We must bid farewell to flower and star.

2. It parts us from friends near and dear to us.

3. It parts us from ourselves. That tender union that subsists between soul and body is rudely torn asunder

V. It is a solitary step. Death is a lonely thing.

VI. It is altogether a solemn step.

1. The step of birth is solemn.

2. The step of prayer is solemn.

3. Not less solemn is the step of death. Lord prepare me for taking this step. (J. Dunlop.)

The nearness of death

This is true physically morally socially influentially.

1. Physically--Breath is in the nostrils; we know not our narrow escapes from death; the point of a needle may destroy the life of the body etc.

2. Morally--Character may be ruined in a moment; one sin broke up human history into ruin and sorrow etc.

3. Socially--When character is ruined society is closed against a man etc.

4. Influentially--A man’s influence should be the measure of his moral standing; by one false step influence may be impaired or destroyed. The fact that there is but a step between life and death should do five things:--

I. It should give high significance and value to time. “Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do ” etc.

II. It should awaken the most anxious vigilance. Only one step and it may be the next!

III. It should stimulate to preparedness for the future.

IV. It should impart a tenderer interest to all the relationships of life.

V. It should lead to the right use of temporal possessions. (J. Parker D. D.)

Certainty of death

it was seemingly true concerning David.

1. This teaches us how liable we are to be wrong in our judgments. We can only judge from appearances; therefore we should draw all inferences of importance with caution.

2. Yet this judgment of David’s perhaps was the instrumental cause of his preservation. It made him cautious. Thus Providence sports with our calculations; “man knoweth not his appointed time but is like the fishes ensnared in an evil net.”

II. The text is really true concerning some individuals now in the world.

1. Let us in the first place look at the great number of the sick scattered over the face of this well-peopled world.

2. Go into the gloomy ceils of condemned criminals whose life must pay the forfeit of their crimes on the coming morning.

3. Look at the combatants that are now preparing for deadly battle; their country’s cause palpitates at their heart and burns on their tongue. They are destined to fall in the struggle.

4. Listen to the cries of those mariners in distress; “they are going up to the heavens and now down to the depths.”

5. View those men of apoplectic structure. How precarious the hold they have of life! Fresh and hale one minute--the next dead.

III. The declaration in the text may be true with regard to some of us.

1. Sentence of death has been passed on all men.

2. This sentence has never been repealed. It has not become obsolete; it is not like the antiquated page of an almanac of past times.

3. But this respite is not for any given length of time. It is frugally extended only from moment to moment. A respited criminal knows the length of his respite; we do not. (T. Macconnel.)


Verse 6

1 Samuel 20:6

A yearly sacrifice for all the family.

The family festival

The word in this verse rendered “sacrifice” is in the margin of our English Bible rendered with somewhat greater felicity “feast.” There comes to view therefore in the narrative an unusually interesting fact; namely that the family of Jesse continued to keep up their residence in Bethlehem and carefully observed the household festivals through the year as in earlier days they had been accustomed. The members of that scattered circle summoned each other regularly to a social reunion annually.

I. The advantages found in the observance of this yearly thanksgiving festival.

1. Of course first and chief of these is the consideration that for all God’s love and care for us there is due at least full acknowledgment of the hand which has given them to us. “Count up your mercies.” A day in each year is surely not too much to be given to this formal rehearsal before God of our plentiful gains and prosperities.

2. In the second place there is manifest advantage in these annual festivals growing out of the cultivation of our domestic affections and the perpetuation of our home tastes and feelings. It mingles religion with our best sympathies. He cannot be called a manly man who did not feel himself a weaker man from the month when his praying mother died and was buried or who does not feel himself a braver better man if now perhaps the beloved old voice still lives to be his counsel and his inspiration.

3. Again: there is a manifest advantage in these thanksgiving festivals found in the perpetuation of ancestral memories to which they are calculated most strongly to minister. It is instinctive in the heart of every true man and woman to desire to live beyond the limits of an immediate generation. We toil hard for many a season to keep our name unsullied and preserve our fair fame unstained for the sake of our offspring.

4. And this leads me on to mention a fourth advantage derived from this annual feast; namely the opportunity it offers for kindling and quickening a true patriotism in the hearts of the people.

II. With this exhibition of manifest advantages I can hardly need to argue further for such observance of the day. If we go with David at all on his errand it must be in imagination only. And I think it will be profitable now to ask and answer where he did go.

1. To his own city.

2. In the second place I suppose David went straight as was possible to his own home in Bethlehem.

3. Then finally I imagine David would want to go to various houses of his brethren. I take this from the fact that this day’s invitation was given by his brother. (C. S. Robinson D. D.)

Christmas and New Year festivities

I. Remember to exalt God in your family festivities.

II. Thoroughly survey the history of the year since your last family festivities.

1. It was a yearly sacrifice. Year short space in time but may be long in events. What changes may crowd into its weeks. Christmas does not always find the family in the old home.

2. On some homes shadows lie thick others bathed in sunshine. Here Jacob has lost his Joseph or Rachel mourns her children; here sportive childhood cries “Oh call my brother back to me I cannot play alone.”

3. And then they who come to the festivities come from such various scenes. Here at Bethlehem was David from the court; and Eliab Abinadab and Shammah from the camp.

4. Nor will any true heart give a secondary place to changes on character the year has produced.

III. Consider the personal obligations each owes to the family.

IV. In your festivities think of others. (G. B. Johnson.)


Verse 10

1 Samuel 20:10

What if thy father answer thee roughly?

A word for the persecuted

I. Our first point is what you may do what there is a possibility of you doing should your friends answer you roughly.

1. You may “by-and-by be offended.” I mean that you may leave Christ altogether because you cannot bear his cross.

2. Or it may happen to you that instead of being by-and-by offended you may continue for awhile but you may gradually give way and at last yield altogether. There are many among us who could bear to lose our heads at a stroke for Christ but to be burned at a slow fire--ah that would try us!

3. But if left to ourselves we may fall into what is as bad as open apostasy. When we find the father or the wife or the friend answering us roughly we may make a pitiful compromise between Christ and the world.

4. I will tell you what you may do also and I pray that the Holy Spirit may lead you to do it. You may take up humbly but firmly this decided stand:--“If my father answer me roughly he must do so but I have another Father who is in heaven and I shall appeal to him. If the world condemn me I shall accept its condemnation.”

II. What the trial will do for us if we are helped to bear up under it. “What if thy father answer thee roughly?”

1. First it will grieve us. It is by no means pleasant to be opposed in doing right by those who ought to help us in it. It is very painful to flesh and blood to go contrary to those we love.

2. The opposition of your friends will try your sincerity. If you are a hypocrite you will soon yield to opposition.

3. The rough answers of opponents will try your faith. You say you believe in Jesus: now we shall see if you do for if you cannot bear a little trial from men and women surely you will not be able to bear the worse trials from the devil and his angels. If you cannot bear the trials of life how will you endure the ordeals of death?

4. Persecution will try your love to Jesus. If you really love Him you will cheerfully stand in the pillory of reproach with Him. Your valiant soldier in quiet barracks at home could fight no doubt but how do you know till he has passed through a campaign?

5. The rough answers of those who should be your friends will keep us awake. I think it was Erskine who used to say “Lord deliver me from a sleepy devil.”

6. Such afflictions drive you to your knees.

7. Trials from the enemies of Jesus confirm our faith. Those who are never tried usually possess a poor tottering faith but trial especially persecution is like the rough March wind which goes howling through the forest and while the young oaks are almost torn up by the roots at first it loosens the soil for them and they send out more rootlets till they get such a firm grip that they defy the hurricane.

8. Rough speeches too will have this good effect upon genuine Christians it will lead them to plead for those who utter them.

9. Certainly opposition has another good effect that it drives those subject to it into the truly separated path; they are known to be Christians and proclaimed as such by their revilers.

10. One good effect of being persecuted at home is this it makes you gentler abroad.

III. How should you behave under the trial?

1. Never court opposition.

2. Endure whatever you have to endure with the greatest possible meekness.

3. After bearing with meekness return good for evil. For cruel words return warmer love and increased kindness. The most renowned weapon for a Christian to fight his antagonists with is that of overcoming evil with good.

4. Here let me also remark that to this gentle endurance there must be added by the persecuted Christian much exactness of life.

IV. In doing all this what comfort may you expect.

1. You may have this for your comfort that the persecutor is in God’s hands. He cannot do more than God lets him and if God permits him to annoy you may cheerfully bear it.

2. Next remember if you keep your conscience clear it is a great joy. Rough answers outside need not trouble you while within there is the answer of a good conscience towards God. Injure your conscience and you lose that consolation; preserve it from evil and you must be happy.

3. Remember that by patiently enduring and persevering you will have fellowship with the grandest spirits that ever lived.

4. Remember too that if you have extraordinary troubles Jesus will be doubly near to you.

5. You have the sweet thought also that you are doing more good where you are than if you were placed altogether among the godly. (C. H. Spurgeon.)


Verse 17

1 Samuel 20:17

And Jonathan caused David to swear again because he loved him.

Love plighting troth

I. Now first great love desires to bind itself to the beloved one. And first of all remember that Jesus bound Himself to His people by covenant bonds.

2. Then next Jesus would have us bound to Him on our part. This kind of bond can never be all on one side for true friendship leads to mutual love.

II. Great love desires renewed pledges from its object: “Jonathan caused David to swear again because he loved him: for he loved him as he loved his own soul.”

1. It was not out of distrust but by reason of a sort of sacred jealousy that “Jonathan caused David to swear again.” Our Saviour is as jealous of us as His Father is; the immeasurable greatness of the love of Jesus Christ to us moves Him to feel an infinite jealousy of us.

2. This is the only return we can make for His love.

3. It is for our highest benefit that we should do this. Our love is often so feeble and cold that it needs to be stirred up again.

4. We are often tempted and allured by other loves and are apt to lend a listening ear to the charmer’s fascinating voice.

5. It is for our benefit that we should often renew our pledges of love to our Lord because we cannot be happy unless we are wholly taken up with love to Him. (C. H. Spurgeon.)

He loved him as he loved his own soul.

True friendship

I. true friendship reports itself by practical sympathy in times of distress.

1. This friendship was truly unselfish.

2. This friendship was truly generous. David was a shepherd boy Jonathan the king’s son.

3. This friendship was truly practical.

4. This friendship was truly reciprocal. David loved Jonathan as fervently as Jonathan loved David..

II. True friendship reports itself by solemn compacts in times of distress. “And Jonathan caused David to swear again because he loved him: for he loved him as he loved his own soul.”

1. This covenant was formed in a reverent spirit. Jonathan appeals to God to witness his sincerity to judge his motive and to prosper his friend.

2. This covenant was submitted to a severe test.

3. This covenant was confirmed by an affectionate parting. (J. T. Woodhouse.)


Verse 18

1 Samuel 20:18

Thou shalt be missed.

Being missed

There are two aspects of truth in these words. One fact is plain enough; the vacant chair will one day be our own. I do not say that the highest motive that can inspire us is to be found in a desire to be gratefully remembered. No; Christian duty has its highest motives in the love of Christ and in devotion to the right as right.

I. There is a recognition of reality all around and about us. Men are for the most part known for what they verily are.

II. There are graduated spheres of influence.

III. There are capacities individual to ourselves. Each Life is a separate creation of God’s. No two dogs even have the same countenances.

IV. There is a recognition of special friendship. We cannot feel alike to all if we would. (W. M. Statham.)

Thy seat shall be empty.

The vacant chair

1. I point out to you the father’s vacant chair.

2. I go a little farther on in your house and I find the mother’s vacant chair.

3. I go on a little further and I come to the invalid’s chair.

4. I pass on and I find one more vacant chair. It is a high chair. It is the child’s chair. If that chair be occupied I think it is the most potent chair in all the household. (T. De Witt Talmage.)


Verses 20-37

1 Samuel 20:20-37

And I will shoot three arrows.

The claims of friendship

I. The arrows taught that a strong and noble friend was standing in the breach.

1. Never be ashamed to own a friend. Do not count him your friend whose name you are ashamed to mention.

2. Never be ashamed to speak up for the cause of Truth. Let the arrows witness to the simplicity and fervour of your allegiance to whatever is lovely and of good report.

II. The arrows spoke of imminent danger. “Jonathan knew that it was determined of his father to put David to death.” “The arrows are beyond thee.” You have hoped against hope; you have tried to keep your position; you have done your duty pleaded your cause sought the intercession of your friends prayed wept agonized: but it is all in vain; the arrow’s flight proves that you must go whither you may. But take these thoughts for your comfort.

1. There are things we never leave behind. David had an inalienable possession in the love of his friend in the devotion of the people in the memory of God’s goodness. There are threads woven into the fabric of our life which can never be extracted or obliterated.

2. There is a Divine purpose determining our course. To the had there was but royal caprice in the flight of the arrow. “What are you going my little fellow?” “I am picking up the prince’s arrows; we generally go for game but he is playing at it today.” That was all he knew; how little did he divine the purpose of his Master and still less realise that each flitting arrow was so to speak taken from God’s quiver and directed by His hand. There is no chance in a good man’s life. Let us recognise the providence of the trifle. He is sending us away.

3. The going forth is necessary to secure greater happiness than we leave. Had David lingered in the palace his life would have been forfeited and he would have missed all the glory and bliss with which his cup ran over in after years. This was the way to the throne. Follow the arrow’s flight then--beyond the warm circle in which you bare so long sheltered; beyond the southland to the icy north; beyond the known to the unknown. Like another Abraham go into the land which God will show thee; like another Columbus turn thy prow in the wake of the setting sun.

III. The arrows taught that human love must suffer separation. This was the lash meeting of these two noble hearts for a long time. Indeed the friends only met once more shortly before Jonathan’s death. They had realised that this must be so. These are the hours that leave sears on hearts and whiten the hair. Christ comes to us in these dark moments as of old to the disciples on whom had broken the full import of his departure. “Let not your hearts be troubled.” (F. B. Meyer B. A.)


Verse 25

1 Samuel 20:25

David’s place warn empty.

The empty place

“And the king sat upon his seat as at other times even upon a seat by the wall: and Jonathan arose and Abner sat by Saul’s side and David’s place was empty” (1 Samuel 20:25). I shall look at these words in the spirit of accommodation to the ordinance of the Lord’s Supper. There too will be a feast a feast provided not by an earthly king but by Him who is the King of kings. Let us consider some of the reasons which may probably be assigned for these vacant places.

1. But some places are empty. Some are empty and we may envy the men and women brothers and sisters in Christ who once sat there but will sit there no more. They are gone to claim the inheritance of which the Lord said “I will give it you.”

2. But other places are vacant not through this heavenly translation. And as we ask “Where are they who usually occupy them?” the answer comes “They are suffering under the Lord’s hand.” Yes many places are empty for this reason and where this is the reason the vacancy is no reproach.

3. Sometimes David’s place is empty because he is engaged in Christian work.

4. Other places too are vacant from motives which are entitled to tender consideration and which also require as tender correction. They fear they are not in a true and befitting mood for the sacrament. They are cold. They know not bow it is but somehow the spiritual temperature is low.

5. But other places are empty for reasons less worthy. Their blank spaces tell it may be of hearts that are dying through habitual sin or habitual neglect of the very conditions of life. (E. Mailer D. D.)

The empty place: A Christmas Day sermon

I. The empty place in the persecutor’s house: “David’s place was empty.” David had good reason for vacating his place at Saul’s table for the passionate king was so malicious and so embittered against him that he sought his life. The child of a Roman noble had stepped into some little place where humble and unlettered people met to hear the gospel preached to sing songs in the name of Jesus and to keep holy one day in the week; and there that youthful heart had learnt the story of the cross and by the grace of God had been brought to love the Saviour. As soon as the fact was made known the officers of justice would take away the child from the father’s house and hale the young believer off to prison and so another seat was empty. You know how it was in our own land how many a seat was empty during the persecutions of Queen Mary. If martyr days should come back again could we vacate our places? Could the husband let his wife and children go for Christ’s sake?

II. There is another place which sometimes becomes empty that is the place of sinful pleasures. This empty place is the result of the working of God’s grace in the heart.

III. The place of our occupation has been empty.

IV. During the past year many of you now present have had a place is the assembly of God’s people.

V. I have now to say just a few words specially to the members of the church about their place at the prayer meeting.

VI. There is another David’s place that is sometimes empty and that ought not to be so it is the place of christian service.

VII. Again I hope that our place at the Lord’s table will not be empty at any time when it is possible for us to occupy it.

VIII. When you will be keeping the Christmas feast there will be many family gatherings and in those family gatherings there will be some households where David’s place will be empty.

IX. There will be no empty place in heaven. In that great family gathering up above they will not be able to say “David’s place is empty.” (C. H. Spurgeon.)


Verses 32-42

1 Samuel 20:32-42

And Jonathan answered Saul his father and said unto him Wherefore should he be slain?

David’s friend Jonathan

“There is little friendship in the world ” said Lord Bacon. “O friendship ” wrote the author of Endymion “of all things the most rare; and therefore most rare because most excellent.”

1. Friendship means more than affection. Strange to say greater friendships exist than in the family circle.

2. Again friendship is not identical with the religious hope. The well-meaning but ignorant have beheaded the saints.

3. But while friendship is by no means involved in the family or the church affection it yet remains true that the purest religious hope is the basis of the highest friendships. Great deeds are never done by those whose belief cuts off immortality.

I. True friendship is based on righteousness. Friendship is the outgrowth of righteousness. The most hallowed relationships afford no ground for unjust deeds among friends. The child’s love for the father is no excuse for wrongdoing at that father’s command.

II. True friendship makes no account of personal danger. The world is slow in learning that there is a greater existence than self.

1. We turn from majorities and minorities to observe that personal comforts and discomforts are no criteria of action. The question is not as to pleasure and pain but rather as to the highest obligations.

2. The true friend is never afraid of danger. The son may die by the father’s javelin but Jonathan’s friendship is true.

III. True friendship rejoices in others’ prosperity. (Monday Club Sermons.)


Verse 34

1 Samuel 20:34

And Jonathan arose from the table in fierce anger.

Jonathan’s moral courage

I propose to enquire into the moral meaning of this incident; to see whether there is anything in it that applies to our own circumstances. I think it impossible to read this story without having the mind arrested as several points of unusual interest.

I. Here is the saddest of all sights--man arrayed against man. Not man against a savage beast; but man against his own kind.

II. Here we have the rupture of the most sacred bonds. Who is it that is offended in this case? It is not a stranger; it is the son that rose in fierce anger being grieved for David and ashamed of his own father. When fathers occupy their right positions sons in ninety-nine cases out of a hundred will be likely to occupy theirs. A good example is never lost.

III. Here too is the assertion of the highest instinct. What is it that asserts itself in this case? It is the spirit of right. Men that get up from dinner tables and say “Not I am ashamed of your evil doing; and I will not taste your bread!” We poor hounds tarry at the trough and satisfy our appetites and slake our thirst but the man that is going out will save the world!

IV. Here we have a disproof of a familiar proverb. The familiar proverb is “Blood is thicker than water.” Jonathan says “Right is thicker than blood.”

V. Here we have the espousal on a noble policy. What was the policy of Jonathan? He espoused the cause of right against might. David had no resources. (J. Parker D. D.)


Verse 42

1 Samuel 20:42

And Jonathan said to David Go in peace forasmuch as we have sworn both of us in the name of the Lord.

Real friendship

“All faithful friends went on a pilgrimage years ago and none of them have ever come back”; so wrote one of the Puritan divines whose heart was depressed at the time most likely. Perhaps the best definition of friendship is that given by Addison: it is “a strong and habitual inclination in two persons to promote the good and happiness of each other.”

I. True friendship requires some acknowledged basis of individual worth. To be very popular is very different from being beloved. Froissart says of Gaston de Foix “In everything he was so perfect that he cannot be praised too much; he loved what ought to be beloved and hated what ought to be condemned; and he never had miscreant with him.”

II. True friendship demands courage and self-sacrifice in instant answer to the call. When Jonathan rose up from the table there was more than one javelin in the air coming towards him; there was the mad king’s wrath shooting lances of fire also.

III. True friendship becomes more disinterested as it becomes more loving.

IV. True friendship shows itself by delicate and sometimes mysterious signals of communication. Indeed when two men become fast and sympathetic comrades we sometimes fail to discover what they find in each other so companionable.

V. True friendship finds its highest model in the Lord of life and glory. (C. S. Robinson D. D.)

Divine goodness in human friendship

I. In its freedom from all jealousy Jonathan’s conduct was most exemplary. It was here that the son proved himself to be so much more noble than the father; for Jonathan saw himself surpassed by David and yet was his faithful friend and indeed found one reason for his love in that superiority which David had secured.

II. The friendship of Jonathan was eminently practical. It did not consist either of fair and flattering words which he uttered or of a mere luxury of sentiment which be enjoyed. On the very first day of its life it proved its power by prompting Jonathan to put his royal robes on David’s shoulder to gird his sword on David’s thigh and to place his bow in David’s hands; as much as to say “I will give thee of my best. Thou art more of a king’s son than I am. These befit thee more than me.” There are friendships in the world which cost those who cherish them nothing and like many other cheap things they are worth just what they cost.

III. Jonathan’s friendship for David was eminently unselfish. It was much that he could do for David; it was but little that David could do for him. Personally he had no interest in David’s continued life and increasing power; but speaking after the manner of men his interest lay in the opposite direction. To Saul’s selfish heart this nobleness of love and self-forgetfulness seemed nothing but wilful wickedness and sheer madness. How could he comprehend it?

IV. Jonathan’s friendship had the crowning grace of constancy. It began in the midst of David’s new-born posterity but it lasted through all his reverses.

1. There is one fact belonging to this history which has seldom had the attention it deserves. While Jonathan was always faithful to David he was never false to his lather. Some men wail cultivate one virtue alone and make it an Aaron’s rod--swallowing up all the other virtues; but this man did not suffer his virtues as a friend to devour his virtues as a son.

2. It needs no word to prove that the friendship we have been studying must have been a great help and blessing to David. How great is known only to Him by whom the boon was bestowed.

3. As we contemplate the character of Jonathan we are made increasingly thankful that the immortality of the good is revealed in God’s Word beyond the possibility of doubt or question. We are forbidden to think that the love of Jonathan’s heart which wrought so beneficently on earth labours no longer for the welfare of the others. Can it be possible that the God who created it in His own image doomed it to indolence? Would not that be to doom the possessor of it to misery? (C. Vines.)

──The Biblical Illustrator