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Philemon Commentary

Philemon 1

The very beautiful and interesting Epistle to Philemon does not require much comment; it is an expression of the love which works by the Spirit within the assembly of God in all the circumstances of individual life.

Written for the purpose of awakening in Philemon sentiments which certain events had a tendency to extinguish in his heart this epistle is suited to produce those feelings in the reader more than to be the object of explanation.

When the human mind is occupied with elevated subjects it feels their weight and bends under the load; it is absorbed; it has to abstract itself to fix its attention. God reveals His own thoughts; and vast as they may be to the human mind they flow with the clearness and connectedness that is natural to them when he communicates them by His chosen instruments. The latter are free to love; for the God who employs them and inspires them is love. It is a more essential part of their task to present Him thus than even to speak of the deep things. Accordingly when they are moved by that love the character of Him who sends them is demonstrated as that of the God who is the source of love by a perfect consideration for others and the most delicate attention to those things which their hearts would feel.

Moreover this love develops itself in relationships formed by the Holy Ghost Himself between the members of the body of Christ that is to say between men. Springing from a divine source and always fed b y it Christian affections assume the form of human regard which by exhibiting love and the opposite of selfishness bear the stamp of their origin. Love free from self can and does think of all that concerns others and understands what will affect them.

Paul at this moment was a prisoner at Rome. God had brought Onesimus there (whither all resorted) to lead him to salvation and the knowledge of the Lord in order that we should be instructed and that Onesimus should have a new position in the christian assembly. [1]

Finally that which we have especially to remark in the Epistle to Philemon is the love which in the intimate centre of this circle (guarded all round by an unparalleled development of doctrine) reigned and bore fruit and bound the members of Christ together and spread the savour of grace over all the relationships in which men could stand towards each other occupying itself about all the details of life with a perfect propriety and with the recognition of every right that can exist among men and of all that the human heart can feel.

Footnotes

[1] It seems to me from the way in which the apostle speaks that he even thought Onesimus would be an instrument of God in the assembly useful in the Lord�s served. He would have retained him to minister to himself in the bonds of the gospel; but he respects his connection with Philemon. It was also much better for the soul of Onesimus that he should submit himself where had done wrong; and if he was to be free that he should receive his freedom from the love of Philemon.

── John Darby《Synopsis of Phelimon》

Philemon 1

Chapter Contents

The apostle's joy and praise for Philemon's steady faith in the Lord Jesus and love to all the saints. (1-7) He recommends Onesimus as one who would make rich amends for the misconduct of which he had been guilty; and on behalf of whom the apostle promises to make up any loss Philemon had sustained. (8-22) Salutations and a blessing. (23-25)

Commentary on Philemon 1:1-7

(Read Philemon 1:1-7)

Faith in Christ and love to him should unite saints more closely than any outward relation can unite the people of the world. Paul in his private prayers was particular in remembering his friends. We must remember Christian friends much and often as their cases may need bearing them in our thoughts and upon our hearts before our God. Different sentiments and ways in what is not essential must not make difference of affection as to the truth. He inquired concerning his friends as to the truth growth and fruitfulness of their graces their faith in Christ and love to him and to all the saints. The good which Philemon did was matter of joy and comfort to him and others who therefore desired that he would continue and abound in good fruits more and more to God's honour.

Commentary on Philemon 1:8-14

(Read Philemon 1:8-14)

It does not lower any one to condescend and sometimes even to beseech where in strictness of right we might command: the apostle argues from love rather than authority in behalf of one converted through his means; and this was Onesimus. In allusion to that name which signifies "profitable " the apostle allows that in time past he had been unprofitable to Philemon but hastens to mention the change by which he had become profitable. Unholy persons are unprofitable; they answer not the great end of their being. But what happy changes conversion makes! of evil good; of unprofitable useful. Religious servants are treasures in a family. Such will make conscience of their time and trusts and manage all they can for the best. No prospect of usefulness should lead any to neglect their obligations or to fail in obedience to superiors. One great evidence of true repentance consists in returning to practise the duties which have been neglected. In his unconverted state Onesimus had withdrawn to his master's injury; but now he had seen his sin and repented he was willing and desirous to return to his duty. Little do men know for what purposes the Lord leaves some to change their situations or engage in undertakings perhaps from evil motives. Had not the Lord overruled some of our ungodly projects we may reflect upon cases in which our destruction must have been sure.

Commentary on Philemon 1:15-22

(Read Philemon 1:15-22)

When we speak of the nature of any sin or offence against God the evil of it is not to be lessened; but in a penitent sinner as God covers it so must we. Such changed characters often become a blessing to all among whom they reside. Christianity does not do away our duties to others but directs to the right doing of them. True penitents will be open in owning their faults as doubtless Onesimus had been to Paul upon his being awakened and brought to repentance; especially in cases of injury done to others. The communion of saints does not destroy distinction of property. This passage is an instance of that being imputed to one which is contracted by another; and of one becoming answerable for another by a voluntary engagement that he might be freed from the punishment due to his crimes according to the doctrine that Christ of his own will bore the punishment of our sins that we might receive the reward of his righteousness. Philemon was Paul's son in the faith yet he entreated him as a brother. Onesimus was a poor slave yet Paul besought for him as if seeking some great thing for himself. Christians should do what may give joy to the hearts of one another. From the world they expect trouble; they should find comfort and joy in one another. When any of our mercies are taken away our trust and hope must be in God. We must diligently use the means and if no other should be at hand abound in prayer. Yet though prayer prevails it does not merit the things obtained. And if Christians do not meet on earth still the grace of the Lord Jesus will be with their spirits and they will soon meet before the throne to join for ever in admiring the riches of redeeming love. The example of Onesimus may encourage the vilest sinners to return to God but it is shamefully prevented if any are made bold thereby to persist in evil courses. Are not many taken away in their sins while others become more hardened? Resist not present convictions lest they return no more.

Commentary on Philemon 1:23-25

(Read Philemon 1:23-25)

Never have believers found more enjoyment of God than when suffering together for him. Grace is the best wish for ourselves and others; with this the apostle begins and ends. All grace is from Christ; he purchased and he bestows it. What need we more to make us happy than to have the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ with our spirit? Let us do that now which we should do at the last breath. Then men are ready to renounce the world and to prefer the least portion of grace and faith before a kingdom.

── Matthew Henry《Concise Commentary on Philemon》

Philemon 1

Verse 1

[1] Paul a prisoner of Jesus Christ and Timothy our brother unto Philemon our dearly beloved and fellowlabourer

This single epistle infinitely transcends all the wisdom of the world. And it gives us a specimen how Christians ought to treat of secular affairs from higher principles.

Paul a prisoner of Christ — To whom as such Philemon could deny nothing.

And Timotheus — This was written before the second epistle to Timothy Philemon 22.

Verse 2

[2] And to our beloved Apphia and Archippus our fellowsoldier and to the church in thy house:

To Apphia — His wife to whom also the business in part belonged.

And the church in thy house — The Christians who meet there.

Verse 5

[5] Hearing of thy love and faith which thou hast toward the Lord Jesus and toward all saints;

Hearing — Probably from Onesimus.

Verse 6

[6] That the communication of thy faith may become effectual by the acknowledging of every good thing which is in you in Christ Jesus.

I pray that the communication of thy faith may become effectual - That is that thy faith may be effectually communicated to others who see and acknowledge thy piety and charity.

Verse 7

[7] For we have great joy and consolation in thy love because the bowels of the saints are refreshed by thee brother.

The saints — To whom Philemon's house was open Philemon 2.

Verse 8

[8] Wherefore though I might be much bold in Christ to enjoin thee that which is convenient

I might be bold in Christ — Through the authority he hath given me.

Verse 9

[9] Yet for love's sake I rather beseech thee being such an one as Paul the aged and now also a prisoner of Jesus Christ.

Yet out of love I rather entreat thee — In how handsome a manner does the apostle just hint and immediately drop the consideration of his power to command and tenderly entreat Philemon to hearken to his friend his aged friend and now prisoner for Christ! With what endearment in the next verse does he call Onesimus his son before he names his name! And as soon as he had mentioned it with what fine address does he just touch on his former faults and instantly pass on to the happy change that was now made upon him! So disposing Philemon to attend to his request and the motives wherewith he was going to enforce it.

Verse 10

[10] I beseech thee for my son Onesimus whom I have begotten in my bonds:

Whom I have begotten in my bonds — The son of my age.

Verse 11

[11] Which in time past was to thee unprofitable but now profitable to thee and to me:

Now profitable — None should be expected to be a good servant before he is a good man. He manifestly alludes to his name Onesimus which signifies profitable.

Verse 12

[12] Whom I have sent again: thou therefore receive him that is mine own bowels:

Receive him that is my own bowels — Whom I love as my own soul. Such is the natural affection of a father in Christ toward his spiritual children.

Verse 13

[13] Whom I would have retained with me that in thy stead he might have ministered unto me in the bonds of the gospel:

To serve me in thy stead — To do those services for me which thou if present wouldest gladly have done thyself.

Verse 14

[14] But without thy mind would I do nothing; that thy benefit should not be as it were of necessity but willingly.

That thy benefit might not be by constraint — For Philemon could not have refused it.

Verse 15

[15] For perhaps he therefore departed for a season that thou shouldest receive him for ever;

God might permit him to be separated (a soft word) for a season that thou mightest have him for ever - Both on earth and in heaven.

Verse 16

[16] Not now as a servant but above a servant a brother beloved specially to me but how much more unto thee both in the flesh and in the Lord?

In the flesh — As a dutiful servant.

In the Lord — As a fellow-Christian.

Verse 17

[17] If thou count me therefore a partner receive him as myself.

If thou accountest me a partner — So that thy things are mine and mine are thine.

Verse 19

[19] I Paul have written it with mine own hand I will repay it: albeit I do not say to thee how thou owest unto me even thine own self besides.

I will repay it — If thou requirest it.

Not to say that then owest me thyself — It cannot be expressed how great our obligation is to those who have gained our souls to Christ.

Beside — Receiving Onesimus.

Verse 20

[20] Yea brother let me have joy of thee in the Lord: refresh my bowels in the Lord.

Refresh my bowels in Christ — Give me the most exquisite and Christian pleasure.

Verse 22

[22] But withal prepare me also a lodging: for I trust that through your prayers I shall be given unto you.

Given to you — Restored to liberty.

── John Wesley《Explanatory Notes on Philemon》

Chapter 1. A Dear Brother

Formerly Useless
Now Useful

I. Thanksgiving for Philemon

1. Dear Fellow Worker
2. The Whole Household Serve God
3. Faith and Love

II. Welcome Onesimus

1. An Old Man
2. A Prisoner of Christ Jesus
3. Appeal out of Love

III. Willing to Pay Back for Him

1. If He Has Done You Any Wrong
2. Charge It to Me
3. Confident of Your Obedience

── Chih-Hsin Chang《An Outline of The New Testament》

 
Chapter One General Review
  
OBJECTIVES IN STUDYING PHILEMON
 
1) To be impressed with the loving hospitality which characterized the
 Christians in the early church
 
2) To learn lessons in the use of tact in dealing with others
 
SUMMARY
 
In this very short and personal epistle
Paul addresses it to Philemon

Apphia
Archippus and to the church in their house. But it soon becomes
evident that its contents are directed toward Philemon
a beloved friend
and fellow laborer with Paul (1-3).
 
After his salutation
Paul expresses his thanks for the noble qualities
which have characterized Philemon in the past
especially his love for
the saints. It is because of Philemon's past performance that Paul is
confident his plea will be carried out faithfully (4-7).
 
Paul's plea concerns Onesimus
a slave who had run away from Philemon.
Somehow he had run into Paul at Rome and was now a new convert to Jesus
Christ. As a brother in Christ
Onesimus had made himself very useful
to Paul in Rome. But because he still legally belongs to Philemon
Paul
is sending him back with a plea that Onesimus be forgiven and received
as a brother in the Lord. Paul also offers to pay any restitution which
may be owed Philemon by Onesimus (8-21).
 
The epistle ends with a request for lodging in the near future
and with
sundry greetings from individuals who were with Paul in Rome (22-25).
 
OUTLINE
 
I. SALUTATION (1-3)
 
 A. FROM... (1a)
 1. Paul
a prisoner of Christ Jesus
 2. Timothy
a brother
 
 B. TO... (1b-2)
 1. Philemon
a beloved friend and fellow laborer
 2. Apphia
 3. Archippus
a fellow soldier
 4. The church in their house
 
 C. GREETINGS (3)
 1. Grace and peace
 2. From God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ
 
II. THANKSGIVING AND PRAYER (4-7)
 
 A. PAUL'S THANKFULNESS (4-5)
 1. Expressed in frequent prayers to God
 2. For Philemon's love and faith toward Jesus and all the saints
 
 B. PAUL'S PRAYER (6-7)
 1. That the sharing of Philemon's faith might be effective
 2. Through the acknowledgment of every good thing in Philemon
 3. For example
the joy and comfort experienced by Paul from
 Philemon's love
as Paul hears of how he refreshed the hearts
 of the saints
 
III. THE PLEA FOR ONESIMUS (8-21)
 
  A. AN APPEAL
NOT A COMMAND (8-9)
 1. Paul had the authority to command what is fitting
 2. He chose instead to make an appeal based upon...
 a. Love itself
 b. Paul's "age"
 c. His imprisonment
 
 B. PAUL'S PLEA (10-20)
 1. Concerns Onesimus (10-11)
 a. Who was converted by Paul while in chains
and is now like
 a son to him
 b. Who though once was unprofitable to Philemon
is now
 profitable to both him and Paul
 2. Paul is now sending Onesimus back to Philemon (12-14)
 a. Though he is very dear to Paul
 b. Though Paul wished to keep him and have him work in
 Philemon's behalf in the gospel
 c. But Paul did not want to do anything without Philemon's
 whole-hearted consent
 3. Paul's desire is that Philemon receive Onesimus as a brother
 in Christ (15-17)
 a. Perhaps his running away was for this purpose
that he might
 become a beloved brother in the Lord
 b. So if Philemon considered himself a partner of Paul
Paul
 asks that he receive Onesimus as he would Paul himself
 4. Paul offers to repay Philemon (18-19)
 a. For any wrong that Onesimus might have done
  b. Of course
Philemon already owed Paul his own life
 5. By receiving Onesimus in this way
Philemon could give Paul
 joy and a refreshed heart in the Lord (20)
 
 C. PAUL'S CONFIDENCE IN PHILEMON (21)
 1. In Philemon's obedience
  2. That Philemon will do even more than what Paul is asking for
 
IV. CONCLUDING REMARKS (22-25)
 
 A. A REQUEST FOR LODGING (22)
 1. That Paul might be able to stay with Philemon
 2. For Paul is confident that through the prayers of Philemon he
 will soon be able to come to him
 
 B. GREETINGS FROM OTHERS (23-24)
 1. Epaphras
a fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus
 2. Mark
Aristarchus
Demas
and Luke
fellow laborers with Paul
 
 C. A CLOSING PRAYER (25)
 
REVIEW QUESTIONS
 
1) Why does Paul refer to himself as a prisoner of Christ Jesus? (1)
 - He was "in chains" (also under house arrest
awaiting trial)
 - But note also that he says "of Christ"
for it was while engaged in
 HIS service and thus for HIS sake he was imprisoned
 
2) Why the mention of Timothy? (1)
 - He was with Paul at Rome
 - Also
it is possible that he was acquainted with Philemon
 
3) What does Philemon's name mean? Did he live up to it?
 - His name means "one that is affectionate"
 - Yes! cf. verse 5 and 7
 
4) Who
possibly
are Apphia and Archippus? (2)
 - Apphia may have been the wife of Philemon
 - Archippus may have been their son
also the minister for the 
 church in Colosse (cf. Co 4:17)
 
5) Is this letter primarily to Philemon
or to all?
 - To Philemon (note the use of the singular in verses 4-21)
 - Though by mentioning the others
perhaps Paul was soliciting their
 help to encourage Philemon
 
6) What is a good example of this family's devotion to Christ and of
 their hospitality to the saints? (2)
 - It appears that they let the church meet in their home
 
7) Define the terms "grace" and "peace" (3)
 - Grace: favor that is unmerited
 - Peace: harmony (e.g.
with God
self
and others)
the result of
 God's grace
 
8) How could Paul have heard about Philemon? (4
5)
 - From Epaphras
who was a member of the church at Epaphras (Co 4:12

 13)
 - From Onesimus himself
 
9) What good things had Paul heard concerning Philemon? (5)
 - His love and faith toward Christ and the saints
 
10) What are some examples of Philemon's love for the saints?
 - Letting the church meet in his home (1)
 - Refreshing the hearts of the saints (7)
 - Preparing guest rooms (22)
 
11) What does Paul pray for in behalf of Philemon? (6)
 - That the sharing of his faith may become effective
 
12) How is this prayer related to the plea which follows in verses 8-21?
 - Carrying out Paul's plea concerning Onesimus would be one way of
 assuring that Philemon's faith in its sharing would be effective
 
13) What had given Paul great joy and comfort in his imprisonment? (7)
 - Philemon's love and the way the saints have been refreshed by him
 
14) How does Paul re-emphasize his close feelings for Philemon? (7)
 - By calling him "brother"
 
15) What does the word "therefore" indicate? (8)
 - That Paul's plea for Onesimus is predicated upon Philemon's past
 behavior mentioned in verses 4-7
 
16) What could Paul have done in this matter? (8)
 - Simply commanded Philemon to do what is proper
 
17) What does Paul do instead? (9)
 - He "appeals" to Philemon
 
18) Why does Paul call himself "the aged"? (9)
 - Perhaps to appeal to Philemon's sympathy
 - Paul is probably about sixty years old at this time
but in light
 of bodily injuries incurred throughout his ministry (cf. 2 Co 11:
 23-29)
he was likely older than his years would normally indicate
 
19) Why does he again refer to himself as a prisoner? (9)
 - Perhaps to tactfully remind Philemon that since Paul had suffered
 so much in service to Christ
certainly Philemon could honor his
 request
 
20) In the original language
where does the name "Onesimus" appear in
 the sentence? (10)
 - At the end: "I appeal to you for my son
whom I have begotten
 while in my chains
ONESIMUS."
 
21) What significance might there be in placing Onesimus' name at the
 end of the sentence?
 - Possibly that Paul is tactfully preparing Philemon to honor Paul's
 request by saying what he does before mentioning a name that is
 likely to bring bad memories to Philemon
 
22) What does Paul call Onesimus? What does it mean? (10)
 - "My son"
 - Like Timothy
this convert of Paul had become like a son to him
 
23) What does the name "Onesimus" mean?
 - "Profitable"
or "useful"
 
24) How had becoming a Christian changed Onesimus? (11)
 - Prior to his conversion
he was "unprofitable" (as a runaway slave)
 - Now
he was "profitable" to both Paul and Philemon
 - Thus he was now living up to his name!
 
25) What does Paul want Philemon to do in regard to Onesimus? (12)
 - Receive him
 
26) How does Paul express further what Onesimus has meant to him? (12)
 - He refers to Onesimus as "my own heart"
 
27) What had Paul wished to do with Onesimus? (13)
 - To keep him
and let him serve Paul in the gospel
 
28) Why had Paul refrained from doing what he wished? (14)
 - He did not want to do anything without Philemon's whole-hearted
 consent
 
29) What did Paul see as the "possible" reason for this turn of events?
 (15)
 - The providence of God
 - Note that Paul says "perhaps"; Paul recognized that we cannot
 always be certain as to why things happen the way they do (just as
 Mordecai said in Esther 4:14)
and whether it is always the Lord's
  doing
 
30) How did Paul want Philemon to receive Onesimus? (16)
 - No longer as a slave
but as a beloved brother
 
31) Upon what basis does Paul ask Philemon to receive Onesimus as he
 would Paul himself? (17)
 - If he considered Paul as a partner
 
32) What is Paul willing to do in behalf of Onesimus? (18-19)
 - Pay back anything Onesimus might owe Philemon
 
33) What indicates that Paul may have personally converted Philemon to 
 the gospel? (19)
 - Paul's statement
"you owe me even your own self"
 
34) How will Philemon's forgiveness of Onesimus affect Paul? (20)
 - Despite being in chains
Paul will have joy and be refreshed in 
 his heart
 
35) Was Paul in doubt about Philemon's response to his request? (21)
 - No
he had confidence that Philemon would do even more that what
 Paul asked
 
36) How could Philemon do more than what Paul had asked of him?
 - He could free Onesimus
 - He could give him spare time to evangelize
 - He could treat other slaves with similar compassion
 
37) How might Paul's request for lodging tactfully induce Philemon to
 honor his request for Onesimus? (22)
 - Philemon would know that Paul would soon be able to witness
 firsthand Philemon's response to the plea for Onesimus
 
38) Where else do we read of these men who accompany Paul in sending
 greetings to Philemon? (23
24)
 - All of them are mentioned in Co 4:10-14
 - Epaphras (Co 1:7; 4:12
13)
 - Mark (Ac 12:12
25; 13:5
13; 15:36-40; 2 Ti 4:11; 1 Pe 5:13)
 - Aristarchus (Ac 19:29; 20:4; 27:2)
 - Demas (2 Ti 4:10)
 - Luke (The "we" sections of Acts
2 Ti 4:11)
 
39) What is Paul's concluding prayer for Philemon? (25)
 - "The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen."
 
40) List the main point of this epistle
  - Saluation (1-3)
 - Thanksgiving & Prayer (4-7)
 - The Plea For Onesimus (8-21)
 - Concluding Remarks (22-25)

A Model Of Christian Courtesy (1-25)
 
INTRODUCTION
 
1. There is a book in the New Testament which has been described as:
 a. A model of Christian courtesy
 b. A manifestation of Christian love
 c. A monument of Christian conversion
 
2. That book is Paul's epistle to Philemon
the shortest of all of 
 Paul's letters
 
3. In this lesson
we shall take a brief look at this unique letter
 
[Before actually reading it
it might be helpful to consider some...]
 
I. BACKGROUND INFORMATION
 
 A. THE AUTHOR...
 1. The apostle Paul
of course
 2. As clearly indicated in verses 1
9
19
 
 B. THE TIME AND PLACE OF WRITING...
 1. By carefully comparing this epistle with the one to the 
 Colossians
it is clear that both were written at the same time
 and from the same place
 a. Like Colossians
the epistle to Philemon was written while
 Paul was in chains (Phile 1
10
13
23; Co 4:18)
 b. Timothy joined Paul in both epistle (Phile 1; Co 1:1)
 c. Epaphras
Mark
Aristarchus
Demas
and Luke joined in the 
 salutations of both (Phile 23
24; Co 4:10-14)
 d. Onesimus
the subject of the epistle to Philemon
was one of
 the messengers by whom the epistle to the Colossians was 
 sent (Co 4:7-9)
 2. If the epistle to Philemon was written about the time of 
 Colossians and the other "prison epistles" (Ephesians and 
 Philippians)...
 a. Then it was written during Paul's imprisonment at Rome
the
 time mentioned in Ac 28:30-31
 b. This would make it sometime during 61-63 A.D.
 
 C. THE MAIN CHARACTERS...
  1. PHILEMON
 a. He was likely a member of the church at Colosse
 b. A very hospitable one
as we shall see
 c. It is possible that he was one of Paul's own converts (cf.
 Phile 19)
 2. APPHIA - possibly the wife of Philemon
 3. ARCHIPPUS
 a. Thought by many to be the son of Philemon
 b. A minister of the gospel (cf. Co 4:17)
 4. ONESIMUS
 a. He had been one of Philemon's slaves (Phile 16)
 b. Who had evidently run away (Phile 15)
 c. Somehow
he had traveled from Colosse to Rome
found Paul

 and was converted to Christ (Phile 10)
 d. He had become very dear to Paul
and very useful (Phile 11-
 13; Co 4:10)
 
 D. THE OCCASION FOR THIS LETTER...
 1. Paul did not think it right to keep Onesimus with him in Rome

 and was therefore sending him back to Philemon
 2. This letter to Philemon is an appeal by Paul...
 a. To receive Onesimus back
now as a brother in Christ
 b. To forgive him if he had done any wrong
 
[With this background information
let's now READ the epistle

noticing...]
 
II. THE MAIN DIVISIONS
 
 A. PAUL'S GREETINGS (1-3)
 
 B. PAUL'S THANKSGIVING AND PRAYER FOR PHILEMON (4-7)
 
 C. PAUL'S PLEA IN BEHALF OF ONESIMUS (8-21)
 
 D. PAUL'S CONCLUDING REMARKS (22-25)
 
[With a reading of the epistle fresh on our minds
let me suggest 
some...]
 
III. OBJECTIVES FOR STUDYING THIS EPISTLE
 
 A. TO BE IMPRESSED WITH THE LOVING HOSPITALITY THAT CHARACTERIZED 
 THE EARLY CHRISTIANS...
 1. Philemon opening his house for the church to meet - Phile 1-2;
 cf. also Ro 16:3-5; 1 Co 16:19
 2. His love for all the saints - Phile 5; cf. also Co 1:4; 2 Th
 1:3
 3. How he refreshed the hearts of the saints - Phile 7; cf. also
 1 Co 16:15-18
 4. How Paul could depend upon on him for a place to stay - 
 Phile 22
 -- Certainly an example worthy of imitation!
 
 B. TO LEARN TACT IN DEALING WITH OTHERS...
  1. Paul could have "commanded" Philemon
but instead he "appealed"
 to him - Phile 8-9
 2. He introduced the subject of his appeal "gradually" - Phile 10
 (in the Greek
the name of Onesimus is the last word in the
 sentence)
 3. He refused to compel Philemon to let him retain Onesimus in 
 Rome
but sent him back - Phile 12-14
 4. He offers to pay Philemon for any wrong incurred by Onesimus
 - Phile 18-19
 5. He believes in the basic goodness of Philemon
not suspicious
 of how he will react - Phile 21
 
CONCLUSION
 
1. From both the example of Paul and Philemon
there is much to be
 gleaned from reading and meditating on this very short epistle
 a. From Philemon
a model of Christian hospitality
 b. From Paul
a model of Christian courtesy
 
2. If you have not ever carefully studied this epistle before
I hope
 that this brief lesson has whetted your desire to do so in the future
 
3. In closing we notice the last verse:
 
 "The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen"
 
Are we living in such a way to allow the grace of the Lord Jesus to be
in our lives?

－－《Executable Outlines》

A dear brother

Formerly useless

Now useful

I. Thanksgiving for Philemon

1. Dear fellow worker

2. The whole household serve God

3. Faith and love

II.Welcome Onesimus

1. An old man

2. A prisoner of Christ Jesus

3. Appeal out of love

III. Willing to pay back for him

1. If he has done you any wrong

2. Charge it to me

3. Confident of your obedience

－－ Chih-Hsin Chang《An Outline of The New Testament》