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ARE YOU "HIGH MAINTENANCE"?
 
INTRODUCTION
 
1. A blessing enjoyed in Christ is support from brethren in times of
 spiritual crisis...
 a. Those who are strong are to support the weak - Ro 15:1
 b. Those who are spiritual are to help those overcome in a fault - Ga
 6:1
 -- It is part of the "law of Christ" to thus bear one another's
 burdens - Ga 6:2
 
2. At the same time
we have a responsibility to become strong...
 a. Each Christian has a responsibility to "bear his own load" - Ga
  6:4-5
 b. We will be held accountable for our own actions - Ro 14:12
 -- It is thus our responsibility to pick ourselves up as well - He
 12:12-13
 
3. Some Christians never seem to progress from being supported to
 supporting themselves...
 a. They remain very dependent upon their brethren
 b. Unless constantly nurtured by brethren
they fall away or become
 apathetic
 -- Such brethren are what might be described in the vernacular as
 "high maintenance"
 
[Are you "high maintenance"? When is it okay to be "high maintenance"?
What is "high maintenance"...?]
 
I. THE DEFINITION OF "HIGH MAINTENANCE"
 
 A. AS USED IN EVERYDAY SPEECH...
 1. It refers to the need for a lot of attention
 a. Required to maintain something in good order
 b. Requiring a lot of time
energy
or money
 2. Any person or thing that requires a lot of attention
 a. Cars that require a lot of work to keep running
 b. Employees that require close supervision to do their jobs
 right
 c. Significant others that require a lot of gifts or dates or
 they lose interest
 
 B. AS APPLIED TO CHRISTIANS...
 1. Christians are "high maintenance"
 a. If they require a lot of attention in order to remain
 faithful
 b. If they require a lot of coddling or pampering to be active
 2. Christians that are "high maintenance"...
 a. Babes in Christ just staring their new spiritual life
 b. Slothful Christians who attend and work only when constantly
 prodded
 3. Even churches can be "high maintenance" (or not)
 a. The church in Corinth certainly was - cf. 1 Co 3:1-4; 2 Co
 12:20-21
 b. The church in Phillipi was not - cf. Ph 1:3-7
 
[Some "high maintenance" is good and necessary in the work of the local
church. But when it exists where it should not
then there can be some
problems...]
 
II. THE DIFFICULTY OF "HIGH MAINTENANCE"
 
 A. WHERE IT CAN HELP...
 1. "High maintenance" is crucial for the newborn Christian
 a. Just as it is for a physical baby
 b. Weak in faith
weak in knowledge
they are very susceptible
 c. Without the proper attention
they may soon be overcome
 2. "High maintenance" is essential for the hurting Christian
 a. Just as it is for someone who is sick or injured
 b. Overtaken in a fault
suffering physical illness or
 persecution
they are weak
 c. Without they proper attention
they may soon be overwhelmed
 -- In such cases
"high maintenance" is certainly called for - cf.
 1 Th 5:14
 
 B. WHERE IT CAN HURT...
 1. When it hinders the growth of the church
 a. Which grows through evangelism
edification
benevolence
 b. Which may not if undue effort is spent on a select few
 2. When it holds back the efforts of workers
 a. Paul desired to preach where Christ was not named - Ro 15:20
 b. Yet churches like the one at Corinth held him back - 2 Co 2:
 12-13
 3. When more serious needs go unmet
 a. E.g.
babes in Christ not being helped
because others
 expect coddling
 b. E.g.
the sick and dying being neglected
because others
 require attention
 
[There are times in our spiritual lives when we all require some "high
maintenance". But to avoid keeping it from those who really need it
we
should give serious thought and effort toward...]
 
III. THE DEFEAT OF "HIGH MAINTENANCE"
 
 A. THROUGH INDIVIDUAL GROWTH...
 1. We need "high maintenance" when we are babes in Christ
 2. But we should reach a point where we do not need it
 3. Where we can become the providers
not just the recipients
 -- Consider the unfortunate case of the Hebrew Christians - He
 5:12-14
 
 B. THROUGH INDIVIDUAL STRENGTH...
 1. Strength from brethren is certainly helpful when we need it
 2. But we should also reach a point where our strength comes from
 God
 3. Where we can become the producers
not just the consumers
 -- Consider the remarkable example of the apostle Paul - Ph 4:
 11-13; 2 Co 1:3-6
 
CONCLUSION
 
1. My purpose has not been to discourage "high maintenance" when it is
 rightly needed...
 a. For we are to bear one another's burden - Ga 6:2
 b. And the strong are to bear with the infirmities of the weak - Ro
 15:1
 
2. My desire has been to challenge you in thinking about your service to
 Christ...
 a. To reflect about your work in the kingdom - Ga 6:4
 b. Are you bearing your own load? - Ga 6:5
 
When a burden becomes unbearable
that is when we need "high
maintenance" from our brethren. When failure to bear our own load
requires "high maintenance"
that is when we hinder the cause of
Christ...!
 
 "He who is slothful in his work is a brother to him who is a
 great destroyer." (Pro 18:9)

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